Coaching practices for Made to Stick Communication
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep trying to win people over with one big impressive gesture and it never seems to stick
- We have the hard talk, they say "I’ll do better," I feel relieved it’s over
- I keep making what feels to me like an obviously compelling case and watching it bounce right off this person
- When I’m trying to teach or mentor someone, I rush them on to the next thing before the last one has landed, and they end up with a head full of disconnected scraps
- We just shook on something important and the conversation felt totally clear to both of us
Practices that may help
- Make It Stick: The Science of Learning
"Make It Stick", by Peter Brown with psychologists Henry Roediger and Mark McDaniel, distills decades of cognitive science into a few high-leverage practices: retrieval practice, spacing, interleaving, and elaboration. Its central counterintuitive claim — that the most effective learning feels harder and slower than rereading — is backed by strong experimental evidence. - Show up consistently to build familiarity and trust over time
Regular, low-key presence across time increases liking without any single memorable moment.
The Mere Exposure Effect, Made Practical - Close with a specific, confirmed, next-step commitment
An accountability conversation that ends without a specific new commitment has not resolved anything.
Crucial Accountability: Holding People to Commitments That Matter - Communicate across value-system differences
Translate your message into the motivational language of the person you’re trying to reach.
Spiral Dynamics, Made Practical - Use spaced repetition of core ideas in teaching and coaching
Revisiting key concepts across sessions builds fluent understanding — mere exposure amplifies spaced practice.
The Mere Exposure Effect, Made Practical - Document key agreements in writing across the style gap
For important decisions, put the explicit agreement in writing even when the verbal exchange seemed clear.
High-Context and Low-Context Communication - Amplify images with sensory detail and emotion
Add sound, smell, movement, and emotion to your mental image to make it stick.
Peg System Mnemonics, Made Practical - Run a daily team huddle
Hold a brief daily standup to sync on what’s happening and surface stuck points before they become crises.
The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus - Establish a full meeting rhythm from daily to annual
Align daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and annual meetings into a coherent cadence that replaces ad-hoc communication.
The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus - Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
A commitment contract binds your future self to a course of action by attaching real costs — financial, social, or reputational — to failure. The evidence from savings programs and behavioral economics is solid for financial commitments; effects on health and habit change are positive but more variable, and contracts work best when you already want to change.
Related concerns
- How To Make Attitudes Stick
"Make It Stick", by Peter Brown with psychologists Henry Roediger and Mark McDaniel, distills decades of cognitive science into a few high-leverage practices: retrieval practice, spacing, interleaving, and elaboration. Its central counterintuitive claim — that the most effective learning feels harder and slower than rereading — is backed by strong experimental evidence.
- Mckinsey Communication
Barbara Minto’s Pyramid Principle says to lead with the answer, then support it with grouped, parallel reasoning. The approach originated at McKinsey and is widely adopted in consulting, law, and business writing. Direct evidence for its superiority over other structures is limited — it is established professional practice rather than an experimentally validated method.
- Accountability Cadence
One named owner, an agreed standard, and a check-in cadence set up front — not nagging.
Set clear, single-point accountability
- Act Recommitment
Recommit explicitly every few weeks — the motivation that drove the original contract fades faster than the contract itself.
Schedule commitment renewal to prevent drift
- Agile Results Daily
J.D. Meier’s Agile Results (also called Agile Getting Started or AGS) is a time-management framework built on a simple rule: name three outcomes at the day, week, month, and year level, and focus your effort on completing them. The Monday Vision / Daily Outcomes / Friday Reflection rhythm is a practitioner structure grounded in goal-specificity and reflection research, not a formally studied protocol.
- Agile Standup Business
Hold a brief daily standup to sync on what’s happening and surface stuck points before they become crises.
Run a daily team huddle
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