Coaching practices for Mental Rehearsal and Imagery After a Loss

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• There’s a painful scene I keep going over in my head, but always as a dry summary of what it meant
• When I picture the big moment I only ever see the win
• Right before something big my nerve drains out and I forget I’ve ever done this well
• My mental rehearsal is a silent little movie
• The day they died still plays in my head in jagged pieces

Practices that may help

1. Use imagery to re-engage with avoided experiences
   Revisit a distressing memory in concrete imagery rather than abstract analysis.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
2. Image the process, not the outcome
   Visualize the feel and flow of execution — not winning, not the scoreboard, not the crowd reaction.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
3. Use mastery imagery to build confidence before high-stakes performances
   Replay previous best performances in imagery before high-pressure situations.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
4. Add sensory channels beyond vision
   Build auditory, tactile, and proprioceptive detail into your imagery — not just what you see.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
5. Retell the story of the death and its aftermath
   Construct a coherent, detailed narrative of the loss — including your experience before, during, and after.
   Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
6. Premeditate adversity (the Stoic root)
   Briefly and regularly rehearse loss and difficulty in advance, before any specific decision.
   Fear-Setting, Made Practical
7. The fly-on-the-wall replay
   Replay a difficult event as if watching it from outside the room rather than from behind your own eyes.
   Self-Distancing Journaling
8. Rehearse the full scenario in vivid mental imagery
   Walk through the difficult situation in your mind — including the hard moments — and watch yourself cope.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
9. Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
   Mental rehearsal — systematically imagining yourself performing a skill — produces measurable performance improvements across athletic and other domains. Meta-analyses find moderate effect sizes, strongest when imagery is vivid, process-focused (rather than outcome-focused), and combined with physical practice. Alan Richardson’s early basketball research helped establish the empirical basis; the effect is well replicated.
10. Include a brief process imagery step in your routine
    Mentally rehearse the execution process — not the outcome — as part of your preparation sequence.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical

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