Coaching practices for Mental Rehearsal and Imagery as a Parent

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My mental rehearsal is a silent little movie
• There’s one specific scene from when I was small that I can still feel in my body, and part of me wishes I could step back into that moment and do for that kid what nobody did
• When I picture the hard thing going well, the version in my head is always smooth and easy
• When I rehearse it in my head I’m watching myself from the outside like game footage, and it looks fine but it doesn’t carry over to the real thing
• When I picture the big moment I only ever see the win

Practices that may help

1. Add sensory channels beyond vision
   Build auditory, tactile, and proprioceptive detail into your imagery — not just what you see.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
2. Imagery rescripting for schema memories
   Revisit a difficult childhood memory in imagination and rewrite it so the child’s needs are met.
   Schema Therapy: Healing Early Maladaptive Beliefs
3. Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
   Mental rehearsal — systematically imagining yourself performing a skill — produces measurable performance improvements across athletic and other domains. Meta-analyses find moderate effect sizes, strongest when imagery is vivid, process-focused (rather than outcome-focused), and combined with physical practice. Alan Richardson’s early basketball research helped establish the empirical basis; the effect is well replicated.
4. Rehearse the full scenario in vivid mental imagery
   Walk through the difficult situation in your mind — including the hard moments — and watch yourself cope.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
5. Use a first-person kinesthetic perspective
   Feel the movement from inside your body — do not watch yourself performing from outside.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
6. Image the process, not the outcome
   Visualize the feel and flow of execution — not winning, not the scoreboard, not the crowd reaction.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
7. Include a brief process imagery step in your routine
   Mentally rehearse the execution process — not the outcome — as part of your preparation sequence.
   Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
8. Train imagery vividness and controllability as skills
   Develop the ability to generate clear, stable, manipulable images — these are learnable, not fixed traits.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
9. Use mastery imagery to build confidence before high-stakes performances
   Replay previous best performances in imagery before high-pressure situations.
   Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical
10. Practice imagery at real-time speed
    Image performance at the actual speed of execution — not in slow motion.
    Mental Rehearsal and Imagery, Made Practical

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