Coaching practices for Motivation Ability Prompt

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  • There’s a thing I keep meaning to do and just don’t, and I’ve been beating myself up for not wanting it enough
  • I genuinely mean to do it and it’s not even hard
  • Every so often I get this burst of fire
  • I keep failing at the same thing and I’ve decided I’m just lazy or weak
  • I’m completely unmotivated and I honestly can’t tell whether it’s that deep down I don’t believe I can pull this off, or that I just don’t care about it

Practices that may help

  1. Design behavior with the Fogg Behavior Model (B=MAP)
    A behavior happens only when Motivation, Ability, and a Prompt arrive at the same moment.
    Tiny Habits, Made Practical
  2. Install a reliable prompt at the right moment
    A behavior that lacks a prompt won’t happen regardless of motivation or ability — fix the trigger first.
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
  3. Surf motivation waves rather than engineering baseline motivation
    Motivation is unreliable and peaks are temporary — use high-motivation moments to redesign prompts and ability, not just to behave better.
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
  4. Diagnose which element — motivation, ability, or prompt — is the bottleneck
    When a behavior isn’t happening, ask: Is the person motivated enough? Can they do it? Are they being prompted?
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
  5. Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value
    Before trying to motivate yourself, identify which of the two factors is actually low.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  6. Design a cue that reliably predicts a reward
    A cue that predicts reward eventually triggers the same dopamine response as the reward itself.
    Reward Prediction Error: Using Dopamine Science to Stay Motivated
  7. Identify your dominant regulatory focus in a given domain
    Knowing whether you are operating from promotion or prevention in a domain determines which motivation tools will actually work for you.
    Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
  8. Understand the action line — the threshold where behavior fires
    Every behavior has a required minimum of motivation × ability; staying above that action line is the design goal.
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
  9. Use a precommitment device to lock in future behavior
    Restrict your future self’s choices now, when motivation is high.
    Nudge Theory, Made Practical
  10. Frame advancement-oriented goals as gains to approach
    Promotion-focused goals are best framed as opportunities to gain rather than obligations to fulfil.
    Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking

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