Coaching practices for Muscle Tension and Anxiety

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  • The acute panic has passed but my whole body is still clenched
  • People keep telling me to "just relax" and I genuinely don’t know how
  • When I’m caught in a worry spiral I can literally feel it in my face and throat
  • I carry tension in my body that I’ve stopped even feeling
  • Even when I’m just typing or driving, I catch myself with my shoulders up by my ears and my jaw locked tight

Practices that may help

  1. Progressive relaxation: release physical tension systematically
    Tense and release each muscle group in sequence to clear the physical tension that emotional arousal creates.
    TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
  2. Progressive muscle relaxation: the foundation
    Systematically tense and release each muscle group to build awareness of what relaxation physically feels like.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  3. Addressing mental tension through the body
    Recognize that anxious thinking produces detectable muscle tension — and reducing that tension can ease the thought spiral.
    Edmund Jacobson’s Progressive Relaxation, Made Practical
  4. Progressive muscle relaxation — using tension to find release
    Systematically tense each muscle group for 5–10 seconds, then release, to identify and dissolve chronic tension your nervous system has stopped noticing.
    The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical
  5. Differential relaxation: stay functional while reducing unnecessary tension
    Relax the muscles that aren't involved in what you're doing while keeping the ones that are active.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  6. Exercise to lower anxiety
    Use movement to discharge physical arousal and recalibrate the alarm system.
    Exercise for Mental Health
  7. Apply EFT to specific performance anxiety triggers
    EFT has the strongest self-guided evidence for test anxiety, public speaking, and sports performance stress.
    EFT Tapping: What It Is, How to Do It, and What the Evidence Shows
  8. The release-only shortcut
    Once trained, skip the tensing and go straight to releasing tension on cue.
    Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
  9. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
    Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  10. Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
    Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
    Mastery Experiences

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