Coaching practices for Notice Body Tension

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• I carry tension in my body that I’ve stopped even feeling
• The tension hits when I’m mid-meeting or stuck in traffic
• Every time I try to tune into my body I turn it into a task
• Someone tells me to relax my hand and I honestly can’t
• I’m so cut off from my own body that I never notice I’m wound tight until I suddenly boil over or crash

Practices that may help

1. Progressive muscle relaxation — using tension to find release
   Systematically tense each muscle group for 5–10 seconds, then release, to identify and dissolve chronic tension your nervous system has stopped noticing.
   The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical
2. The release-only shortcut
   Once trained, skip the tensing and go straight to releasing tension on cue.
   Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
3. The foundational stance — observing, not fixing
   Approach each body region as a curious observer, not as someone trying to relax, release, or change what’s there.
   Body Scan Meditation, Made Practical
4. Tension-release contrast (the core tense-and-release cycle)
   Deliberately tense a muscle group for five to ten seconds, then release fully — the contrast teaches you what genuine relaxation feels like.
   Edmund Jacobson’s Progressive Relaxation, Made Practical
5. Practice noticing what your body is doing
   Build the skill of sensing internal signals — tension, heart rate, breath — without being hijacked by them.
   The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
6. The core tense-and-release cycle
   Tense one muscle group for several seconds, then release fully and notice the contrast.
   Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
7. Work at progressively subtler tension levels
   Once you can feel the contrast at full tension, practice with 50%, then 25%, then the subtlest flicker — the real target.
   Edmund Jacobson’s Progressive Relaxation, Made Practical
8. Progressive relaxation: release physical tension systematically
   Tense and release each muscle group in sequence to clear the physical tension that emotional arousal creates.
   TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
9. The heaviness exercise ("My arm is heavy")
   Repeat "my right arm is heavy" slowly and passively until you feel a real physical sensation of heaviness.
   Autogenic Training, Made Practical
10. Check and correct tension-accumulating postures
    Identify the postures and positions that silently accumulate tension throughout your day and redesign them.
    Edmund Jacobson’s Progressive Relaxation, Made Practical

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