Coaching practices for Notice Cravings

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The craving hits and it feels like it’ll never let up unless I give in
• I keep finding myself already mid-snack or already typing the sharp reply, with no memory of deciding to
• When the craving hits I get stuck in this endless head-argument
• When a craving hits it feels like it’ll just keep building and building until I cave
• I keep getting these vague urges to snack between meals when I just ate not long ago, and I can never tell if I’m actually hungry or if my body is asking for something else entirely.

Practices that may help

1. Extinguish conditioned cravings through cue exposure without response
   Repeatedly expose yourself to a craving cue without performing the associated behavior to weaken the conditioned urge.
   Classical Conditioning and Habit Triggers
2. Notice the urge as it arises
   Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
3. Locate the urge in your body
   Describe where and how the craving shows up physically instead of arguing with it in your head.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
4. Ride the wave to its peak and down
   Watch the urge rise, crest, and fall without acting — like a wave you are surfing.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
5. Use water to distinguish thirst from hunger
   Mild dehydration signals can mimic hunger; drinking water before snacking often reveals whether the urge is genuine hunger or a hydration deficit.
   Mindful Hydration: Water, Cognition, and Mood
6. Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
   Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
7. Diagnose the real reward the habit is delivering
   Run experiments to discover what craving the habit actually satisfies — it is often not obvious.
   The Habit Loop, Made Practical
8. Surf the urge instead of fighting it
   Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
   The Willpower Instinct: What Self-Control Actually Is
9. Buy time with a brief delay
   Commit to waiting just ten minutes before acting on the urge.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
10. Meet the urge without judging yourself
    Treat having an urge as normal and human, not as evidence of weakness.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving

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