Coaching practices for Open Loop Brain

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Something in my life keeps spiraling
• My head is so cluttered with everything I've half-promised and half-started that I can't think straight, and I just want to dump every last one of them out somewhere I actually trust, so my mind will finally stop holding the whole pile in the air at once.
• I live entirely in my head
• My kid is mid-meltdown and I’m kneeling there explaining why they can’t have it, getting more reasonable while they get more wild, and none of my logic is landing
• My child reacts to everything on pure impulse and never seems to stop and think how the other kid feels, and I want to actually build that thinking-and-considering muscle during our good calm moments, not just keep firefighting once they’ve already lost it.

Practices that may help

1. Identify the reinforcing and balancing loops
   Find whether behavior is driven by amplification (R loops) or by correction toward a goal (B loops).
   Systems Thinking
2. Close loops deliberately to reduce mental clutter
   Capture every open commitment in a trusted system so the brain can let it go.
   The Zeigarnik Effect: Using Task Tension to Stay Motivated
3. The body scan
   Systematically move attention through the body, noticing sensations without trying to change them.
   Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Made Practical
4. Connect emotionally before you redirect or teach
   The downstairs brain has to be acknowledged before the upstairs brain can hear anything.
   The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
5. Engage the upstairs brain through curiosity and play
   Ask questions that require the child to think, imagine, or consider another perspective.
   The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
6. Capture everything into a trusted inbox
   Get every open loop out of your head and into one external place you trust.
   Getting Things Done (GTD), Made Practical
7. Apply self-compassion to replace self-critical rumination
   Respond to self-critical loops with the same warmth you would offer a struggling friend.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
8. Cultivate a "yes brain": curiosity, courage, and resilience over reactivity
   Respond to the child’s world with curiosity and openness rather than threat and control.
   The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
9. Catch co-dysregulation before it spirals
   Two activated nervous systems feed each other — notice the loop and have one person step out.
   Co-Regulation: Borrowing Calm From Another Nervous System
10. Drop from head-based thinking to open, embodied awareness
    Shift location of identity from the chattering mind to the open space of the whole body.
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical

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