Coaching practices for Open Monitoring Meditation During Conflict

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • The moment a hard feeling rises in me, I instinctively clench away from it or bolt for a distraction
  • Whenever I try to sit in that open, spacious awareness I just drift off into daydreaming and lose twenty minutes
  • I calm down for a minute with my eyes closed, but the second I open them and step back into the room I snap right back into the same tight, tunnel-visioned reactivity
  • I’ve got the breath thing down
  • The second I close my eyes to meditate I lose my grip on where I am and old frightening stuff comes rushing up out of the dark

Practices that may help

  1. Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
    Open monitoring meditation (also called choiceless awareness or open presence) is the practice of resting in an expansive, receptive awareness without directing attention at any single object — observing whatever arises in experience without preferring or pursuing any of it. It complements focused-attention practices and is associated with different neural signatures in contemplative neuroscience. Direct outcome evidence is limited compared to focused-attention methods.
  2. Meeting emotion in open presence
    When a difficult emotion arises during open monitoring, stay in the witnessing position rather than contracting or escaping.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  3. Sequencing focused attention and open monitoring
    Use focused attention to settle the mind first, then release the object and shift to open monitoring — this is the standard contemplative sequence.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  4. Expand: widen awareness back to body and situation
    After the breath anchor, expand attention outward to include the whole body and the surrounding moment.
    The Three-Minute Breathing Space
  5. Choiceless awareness — resting without an object
    Sit with attention open and receptive, letting whatever arises in experience be the meditation object — without choosing, pursuing, or rejecting any of it.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  6. Use external anchors instead of closed-eye inward attention
    Keep eyes open and soft-focused, or anchor on an external object, to reduce the risk of dissociation during practice.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical
  7. Continuous noting — extending the practice into daily activity
    Maintain a running background note on mental events throughout ordinary tasks, sustaining the observer stance informally.
    Noting Practice, Made Practical
  8. Expanding to panoramic awareness
    Deliberately widen attention from its usual narrow focal point to include the full field of sensory experience simultaneously.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  9. Know your window of tolerance before practicing
    Identify the arousal zone in which mindfulness is safe for you — not too activated, not too shut down.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical
  10. Trauma-sensitive modifications — pacing body awareness safely
    Adjust the body scan to stay within a window of tolerance if direct body focus is activating.
    Body Scan Meditation, Made Practical

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