Coaching practices for Panic Surfing Before Bed

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  • The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up
  • The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
  • The moment the lights go out my brain starts running tomorrow’s to-do list on a loop
  • There’s no point where I actually put the screen down for the night
  • By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep

Practices that may help

  1. Panic Surfing
    Panic surfing is the practice of allowing panic to peak and pass without fighting it, fleeing the situation, or using safety behaviors — based on the understanding that panic attacks are physiologically self-limiting and cannot escalate indefinitely. The approach is drawn from panic treatment research and from acceptance-based models; it is one of the most effective behavioral components of modern panic disorder treatment.
  2. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
    Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  3. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
    Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
    Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
  4. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
    Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  5. Set a screen cutoff time
    Pick a consistent hour to put screens away and protect the wind-down window.
    The Digital Sunset
  6. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
    Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  7. Pair sleep restriction with stimulus control
    Use the restricted window only for sleep — not reading, screens, or lying awake — to re-pair the bed with sleepiness.
    Sleep Restriction Therapy
  8. Keep screens out of the bedroom
    Reserve the bed for sleep so the space itself cues winding down.
    The Digital Sunset
  9. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  10. Stop watching the clock during the night
    Remove or hide the clock to stop the "calculating how much sleep I have left" loop that activates the brain.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep

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