Coaching practices for Panic Surfing with My Team

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • When a panic attack peaks, all the breathing and reasoning techniques I’ve learned just slip right through my fingers
  • The same situations set me off every time
  • Something just blew up and I can feel the whole team watching how I take it
  • By the time I hear someone on my team was blocked, it’s already festered into a real problem
  • The pull to bolt for the door feels less like a feeling and more like a command I have no choice but to obey

Practices that may help

  1. Panic Surfing
    Panic surfing is the practice of allowing panic to peak and pass without fighting it, fleeing the situation, or using safety behaviors — based on the understanding that panic attacks are physiologically self-limiting and cannot escalate indefinitely. The approach is drawn from panic treatment research and from acceptance-based models; it is one of the most effective behavioral components of modern panic disorder treatment.
  2. Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
    Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
  3. Use the dive reflex as a first-response to panic
    When panic peaks and cognitive tools fail, cold water on the face gives the body a hardwired override.
    The Dive Reflex, Made Practical
  4. Plan ahead for predictable triggers
    Decide in advance how you will surf the urges you know are coming.
    Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
  5. Respond productively to failure and bad news
    How you react in the first thirty seconds after a mistake either banks or burns safety.
    Psychological Safety, Made Practical
  6. Run a daily team huddle
    Hold a brief daily standup to sync on what’s happening and surface stuck points before they become crises.
    The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus
  7. Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical
    "Riding the wave" is a mindfulness-based urge management technique: rather than acting on an urge or fighting it, you observe it as a rising and falling wave of physical sensation, without doing anything. Urges are time-limited; if not acted upon or fought, they peak and subside. The technique has observational support specifically in addiction contexts (urge surfing), and the underlying mechanism — that urges are temporary physiological events — is consistent with mindfulness and DBT research.
  8. Surf the escape urge without acting on it
    Treat the urge to flee as a wave — it rises, peaks, and falls without requiring your action.
    Panic Surfing
  9. Surf the urge to avoid instead of obeying it
    Treat the avoidance impulse as a wave to observe and outlast, not a command to obey.
    Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
  10. Surface the source of urgency before accepting it
    Ask whose urgency it is and whether it was created by a missing upstream action.
    The Eisenhower Matrix for Teams

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