Coaching practices for Pe Rationale
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- When I ask someone to do something and don’t say why, they hear it as "just comply" and push back
- On paper this is the obviously rational call, but there’s a gut unease about it nobody will say out loud because we can’t justify it logically
- I’m staring at a case where following the rule to the letter would clearly produce the wrong result
- My reasons feel airtight from inside my own head, but I can’t tell how much of that is just me being on my own side
- I wave through arguments on my side that I’d tear apart in a heartbeat if the other side made them
Practices that may help
- Explain the why before the what
Sharing the reason behind a request converts a perceived command into an informed choice.
Psychological Reactance: Working With the Push-Back Reflex - Red hat: name the emotions without justifying them
Give feelings a legitimate place in the discussion — the red hat makes emotional data explicit so it stops running covertly.
Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical - Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom - Apply the outsider test: how would this look to a neutral observer?
Ask how a detached, well-informed stranger would evaluate your belief or decision.
The Scout Mindset - Apply the double-standard check: would I accept this reasoning if it pointed the other way?
Test whether you are holding your team’s arguments to a lower bar than the other side’s.
The Scout Mindset - Diagnose before elaborating
Check the common, simple explanation first before searching for rare or complex ones.
Occam’s Razor: Prefer the Simpler Explanation - Evaluate evidence by its likelihood ratio, not by how it makes you feel
Ask how much more likely this evidence would be if you’re right versus if you’re wrong.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Increase personal relevance to shift the audience to the central route
Show people what is personally at stake before presenting your argument.
Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical - Set the constraint: what conclusions would you not accept?
Pre-define which conclusions would be embarrassing, then monitor whether your reasoning is steering away from them.
Motivated Reasoning - Provocation (PO): make a deliberately absurd statement to escape the pattern
Prefix an impossible or absurd idea with "PO" to signal it is a provocation, not a proposal — then follow it to see what it unlocks.
Lateral Thinking, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Externalize Rational Response
Give feelings a legitimate place in the discussion — the red hat makes emotional data explicit so it stops running covertly.
Red hat: name the emotions without justifying them
- Ecological Rationality
A good rule works because it matches the statistical regularities of the environment — wrong environment, wrong rule.
Match your heuristic to the structure of the environment
- Explain Your Reasoning
Notice when the conclusion appeared before the evidence — and treat that as a red flag.
Catch yourself working backward from a conclusion
- How To Detect Motivated Reasoning
Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
- How To Reduce Motivated Reasoning
Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
- Questioning Your Own Objectivity
Use the same question types on your own beliefs that you would use to probe someone else’s.
Apply Socratic questioning to your own thinking (not just others’)
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