Coaching practices for Peer After Action Review

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • When I replay this in my own head I always land on the same tidy story, and some part of me suspects I’m protecting myself
  • That big thing just wrapped up and didn’t land how I wanted, and I can already feel myself rushing on to the next thing
  • When something goes badly I’ll pick it apart for hours, but when something actually goes great I just enjoy it and move on without a second thought
  • I only ever stop to reflect when something blows up
  • Every time I try to look back at what went wrong it just turns into me beating myself up

Practices that may help

  1. After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
    An after-action review (AAR) is a structured debriefing developed by the US Army that asks four questions after any event: What was supposed to happen? What actually happened? What caused the difference? What do we do differently next time? Applied consistently, AARs build a culture of learning from experience rather than simply moving on. The evidence base is primarily observational and practice-based; experimental studies are limited but supportive.
  2. Include a trusted other in high-stakes AARs
    Self-conducted AARs have blind spots; a peer or coach who was not inside the event sees the causal story differently.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  3. Run the four-question AAR within 24 hours of any significant event
    What was planned? What happened? Why the gap? What next? — answered while memory is fresh.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  4. Apply the AAR to successes, not only setbacks
    Reviewing what actually caused a win produces replicable insight; reviewing only failures produces only loss-avoidance.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  5. Build a regular AAR cadence, not just crisis-triggered reviews
    Reviews triggered only by problems create a negative-events database; a regular cadence captures ordinary learning that compounds.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  6. Separate judgment from analysis in the debrief
    The AAR only produces learning when the analysis phase is free of performance judgments.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  7. Conduct a daily after-action review with zero excuses
    Review the day’s performance honestly: what happened, what should have happened, what changes.
    The Accountability Mirror: David Goggins’s Radical Honesty Practice
  8. Run brief after-action reviews without blame
    After any significant outcome — success or failure — ask four questions together as a team.
    Psychological Safety in Teams
  9. Share the review with someone who will ask honest questions
    A review held privately is easier to fudge; one shared with an honest questioner is harder to rationalize.
    The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method)
  10. End every AAR with one specific, time-bound next action
    An AAR without a concrete next action produces insight without change.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning

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