Coaching practices for Pendulation in a New Job
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ve got a big move (or a new job) coming up in a couple of months, and I can feel it’s a rare chance to start fresh
- It’s the ordinary stuff that catches me off guard
- I’m about to join a whole new group of people who have no idea who I’ve been
- I go straight from one back-to-back meeting into the next with no gap, and I show up to each one still chewing on the last
- I’m right in the middle of a big upheaval
Practices that may help
- Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows
Treat approaching life changes as scheduled opportunities for habit installation — plan before the transition, not after.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Apply pendulation to everyday stress (not just trauma)
Pendulation works for any activated state — anxiety before a call, frustration during a project — not only clinical trauma.
Pendulation, Made Practical - Pendulation, Made Practical
Pendulation is a Somatic Experiencing term for the deliberate oscillation between a difficult or activated body sensation and a neutral or comfortable resource — a place in the body that feels okay right now. Moving back and forth between the two, rather than staying fixed in the difficult sensation, trains the nervous system to tolerate distress in small doses and recover, gradually widening the window of tolerance. The approach is established clinical practice in SE; large RCT evidence specific to pendulation is limited. - Use social transitions to change the norms around your behavior
When your social group changes, use the transition to adopt the behavioral norms of the new group rather than carrying old ones.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Design transitions between tasks, not just the tasks themselves
Build a brief transition ritual between tasks — a 5-minute buffer — so residue dissipates before the next task begins.
Attention Residue: Why Switching Tasks Costs More Than You Think - Use a life transition to break old environment-behavior links
Major context changes (a move, a new job) create a rare window where old habits are disrupted and new ones are easier to form.
Environment Design for Behavior Change - Time nudges to coincide with natural transition points
People are most open to changing habits at life transitions — capitalize on fresh-start moments.
Nudge Theory, Made Practical - Exploit micro-transitions within your day as mini fresh-start moments
Use daily transition points — arriving home, finishing a meeting, taking a break — to deliberately shift behavior rather than defaulting to the old pattern.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Build a two-minute transition buffer between activities
Leave a short blank buffer between any prior activity and the work that needs to start.
Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem - Use genius mapping in onboarding
Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
Related concerns
- Atomic Habits During A Big Change
James Clear’s system says behavior change is a system problem, not a willpower problem: make a desired habit obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying — and do the reverse for bad ones. The most load-bearing ideas (implementation intentions, friction reduction, identity-based change) are well supported in the research literature.
- Atomic Habits In A New Job
James Clear’s system says behavior change is a system problem, not a willpower problem: make a desired habit obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying — and do the reverse for bad ones. The most load-bearing ideas (implementation intentions, friction reduction, identity-based change) are well supported in the research literature.
- Career Change
Treat approaching life changes as scheduled opportunities for habit installation — plan before the transition, not after.
Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows
- Change Entry Point
Use daily transition points — arriving home, finishing a meeting, taking a break — to deliberately shift behavior rather than defaulting to the old pattern.
Exploit micro-transitions within your day as mini fresh-start moments
- Daily Transitions Behavior
Use daily transition points — arriving home, finishing a meeting, taking a break — to deliberately shift behavior rather than defaulting to the old pattern.
- Habit Reversal Training In A New Job
Habit reversal training (HRT), developed by Nathan Azrin and Robert Nunn in the 1970s, is a behavioral therapy approach that combines awareness training and competing response practice to interrupt unwanted habitual behaviors. It has strong clinical evidence for tic disorders and body-focused repetitive behaviors, and the underlying principles apply broadly to habit change.
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