Coaching practices for Pre Performance Routines as a Parent

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  • I have a few superstitious little rituals before I compete, but they’re just things I do out of habit
  • My prep works fine until something interrupts it
  • When the nerves hit, my warm-up stretches on and on as I fidget and re-do things, and that very dragging-out is the tell that I’m rattled
  • Every time I face the same kind of high-stakes moment my nerves hit me cold and unpredictable, and I want some small repeatable thing I do beforehand
  • Right at the moment I need to commit and execute, my mind is still half-cluttered with second-guessing and stray thoughts

Practices that may help

  1. Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
    Pre-performance routines are standardized behavioral and mental sequences performed before a performance that direct attention, manage arousal, and activate well-rehearsed movement patterns. Sport psychology research (particularly Stuart Cotterill’s work) and multiple meta-analyses find they reliably improve consistency and reduce performance variability across athletic and skill-based tasks.
  2. Design your pre-performance sequence with clear functional anchors
    Build a sequence where every step serves a specific psychological function — not just habit.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  3. Practice routine disruption so it doesn’t derail performance
    Train yourself to reset and re-enter the routine after interruptions so disruption never catches you unprepared.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  4. Standardize the duration of your routine
    Fix the length of your pre-performance sequence so timing does not become a pressure variable.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  5. Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
    A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
    Power Posing Revisited
  6. Install a focus cue as the final routine step
    End every pre-performance routine with one specific cue that triggers full attentional commitment to the task.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  7. Include a brief process imagery step in your routine
    Mentally rehearse the execution process — not the outcome — as part of your preparation sequence.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  8. Plan behavior management strategies in advance
    Decide how you will respond to predictable problems before they happen.
    Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
  9. Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand
    Fine-tune whether your routine should up-regulate or down-regulate your energy before the performance.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  10. Anchor the growth zone with a comfort ritual
    Pair stretch activities with a brief comfort ritual before and after to keep the nervous system regulated.
    The Comfort Zone Model: How to Grow Without Burning Out

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