Coaching practices for Problem Solving Worry

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• I treat every single worry like a problem demanding a solution, so I build elaborate contingency plans for things that haven’t even happened and probably never will, and it leaves me wrung out
• There’s a real problem I genuinely could act on, but instead of taking one step I just keep turning it over in my head, and the worry stays loud precisely because I’ve never actually decided what I’m going to do about it.
• My worrying feels like it should be productive, but it just blurs the things I could actually do something about together with the what-ifs I can’t touch, so I end up churning on all of it
• My worries all blur into one big undifferentiated dread, and I can’t tell which ones I could actually do something about right now and which are just what-ifs I’m powerless over
• I spend real effort planning for things that haven’t happened and may never happen, and it passes for being responsible

Practices that may help

1. Productive Problem-Solving vs. Worry
   Distinguish solvable worries — which need a plan — from hypothetical ones — which need acceptance or defusion.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
2. Turn current problems into a concrete action plan
   For worries that are real and actionable, define one next step and schedule it.
   The Worry Tree
3. Separate solvable worries from unsolvable ones
   Triage each worry into "act on it" or "let it go," and treat each kind differently.
   Worry Postponement, Made Practical
4. Classify the worry as current or hypothetical
   Ask: "Is this a real problem happening now, or a what-if scenario?"
   The Worry Tree
5. Separate solvable problems from hypothetical worries
   Apply problem-solving only to real, current problems — and use uncertainty tolerance for the hypothetical ones.
   Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD
6. Convert worry into a concrete plan
   For actionable worries, replace the loop with a specific if-then plan.
   Worry Postponement, Made Practical
7. The Worry Log: Capturing and Categorizing Worries
   Write down each worry as it arises, then categorize it as solvable or hypothetical before the worry window.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
8. Distinguish actionable from non-actionable worries
   Triage each worry: is there one thing you could actually do about it? If yes, plan it. If no, that's the exposure target.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
9. Contain worry with a scheduled worry period
   Assign worry a 20-minute daily window — and redirect it there the rest of the day.
   Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD
10. Contain worry in a designated worry period
    Defer non-urgent worry to a fixed 20-minute window later in the day.
    The Worry Tree

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