Coaching practices for Rain Meditation Tara Brach S Four Step Practice When Starting Out

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  • When I finally work through a hard feeling I rush straight back into doing and it all snaps shut again
  • Something just got to me in the middle of my day and I can feel myself reacting, but I’ve only got a couple of minutes before I have to keep going
  • I’m brand new to this and when I try to meditate my mind just wanders off and I don’t even notice for minutes
  • I calm down for a minute with my eyes closed, but the second I open them and step back into the room I snap right back into the same tight, tunnel-visioned reactivity
  • Every app hands me a twenty-minute body scan and somewhere in the middle of all that sustained inward attention I come undone

Practices that may help

  1. RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
    RAIN is a four-step mindfulness practice developed by Tara Brach that stands for Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. It is designed to meet difficult emotions — fear, shame, grief, anger — with mindful awareness rather than avoidance or overwhelm. The steps draw on mechanisms shared with acceptance-based therapies (ACT, MSC, MBCT); the RAIN sequence itself is practitioner-developed and not yet independently trialed as a protocol.
  2. After RAIN: resting in natural, open awareness
    After the four steps, rest in the open awareness that remains — not returning immediately to doing.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  3. Mini-RAIN: a 2-minute version for mid-day use
    Apply the four steps rapidly in 2 minutes to break emotional reactivity in the middle of a difficult moment.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  4. Counting the breath (susokukan)
    Count breaths from one to ten and start over, a traditional on-ramp to a steady mind.
    Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond)
  5. Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
    Radical acceptance, taught by Tara Brach and rooted in dialectical behavior therapy, means fully acknowledging reality as it is — including pain you cannot change — instead of fighting it. The point is not approval or giving up; it is to stop the extra suffering that resistance adds on top of the original pain. Acceptance-based skills are well-established in clinical practice (DBT, ACT); RAIN is a practitioner framework for applying them.
  6. Expand: widen awareness back to body and situation
    After the breath anchor, expand attention outward to include the whole body and the surrounding moment.
    The Three-Minute Breathing Space
  7. Titrate: start with shorter, shallower practice and increase slowly
    Build mindfulness tolerance incrementally — brief and externally anchored before deep and sustained.
    Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness, Made Practical
  8. Everyday integration — using commute and errand walks as practice
    Transform a portion of routine walking into meditation by choosing one formal practice element to maintain for the duration.
    Walking Meditation, Made Practical
  9. Prepare for tonglen with a brief equanimity grounding
    Entering tonglen from a grounded, spacious state makes the practice sustainable rather than destabilising.
    Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending
  10. Basic noting — rising and falling
    Label the physical sensations of breath as "rising" on the inhale and "falling" on the exhale.
    Noting Practice, Made Practical

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