Coaching practices for Reduce Hyperarousal
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My heart’s pounding, my thoughts are racing, and I keep trying to think my way calm but my body is still floored
- Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
- Every calming trick I know needs a clear head, and I don’t have one when I’m flooded
- I’m flooded and my thoughts are useless right now
- I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
Practices that may help
- Come down from hyperarousal
When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone - De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone - Use TIPP to make other skills accessible again
TIPP is not the endpoint — it reduces arousal so cognitive and interpersonal skills become usable.
TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity - Arm havening stroke
Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical - Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD. - TIPP: Rapid Physiological De-escalation for Intense Distress
Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation to bring crisis-level emotion down quickly.
The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments - Paced breathing as grounding
Slow and lengthen the exhale to bring acute arousal down while you ground.
Grounding Techniques for Acute Distress - Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
Related concerns
- Reducing Arousal Triggers
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
- When Window Of Tolerance Down Regulate Hyperarousal
When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
Come down from hyperarousal
- Anger Arousal Reduction
Lower your physiological baseline so provocations have less arousal to add.
Use progressive relaxation to lower resting arousal
- When Counter Conditioning Progressive Relaxation For Desensitization
Train a reliable relaxation response that will compete with and inhibit fear.
Learn deep relaxation as the counter-stimulus
- When Distress Tolerance Tipp Skills
Use Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Progressive muscle relaxation to drop overwhelm from the body up.
TIPP — change your body chemistry fast
- When Stress Inoculation Training Relaxation Skills Acquisition
SIT requires one somatic coping skill — diaphragmatic breathing or PMR — trained to automaticity before stress practice begins.
Acquire a core relaxation skill (and actually practice it until automatic)
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