Coaching practices for Removing Anxiety Sources

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
• I keep trying to feel better by piling nice things on top
• I’ve got all these little rules that keep me okay
• The anxiety hits in the middle of a meeting or while I’m standing in line, and I can’t exactly close my eyes and name what I smell in front of everyone
• When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again

Practices that may help

1. Fade reassurance-seeking
   Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
2. Practising ataraxia: removing sources of anxiety
   Identify and address the sources of background anxiety rather than adding pleasures on top of them.
   Epicurean Philosophy: Practical Happiness
3. Drop the safety behaviors
   Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
4. Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
   In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
5. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
   After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
   Worry Exposure, Made Practical
6. Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
   List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
7. Run a 2-week caffeine-free anxiety audit
   Remove caffeine entirely for two weeks to establish your true anxiety baseline.
   Caffeine and Anxiety: What the Research Actually Says
8. Run the full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence
   Work through all five senses in order: 5 things seen, 4 heard, 3 touched, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
9. Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
   If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
10. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical

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