Coaching practices for Revisiting Trauma Memory

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  • The memory itself still feels like it’s happening right now, not something that’s over
  • The memory finally doesn’t sting the way it used to, but the belief it left behind is still running the show
  • When I bring the memory up it’s still as vivid and loud as the day it happened, like no time has passed at all
  • Last time a memory finally felt settled, but the week since stirred things up
  • I’ve told the story plenty of times

Practices that may help

  1. Understand imaginal exposure: revisiting the traumatic memory deliberately
    Imaginal exposure has the person revisit the traumatic memory in detail to allow the brain to process it as a past event.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  2. Installation of the Positive Cognition
    Once distress has cleared, strengthen the preferred self-belief with bilateral stimulation.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  3. Bilateral Stimulation During Active Processing
    Hold the distressing memory in mind while tracking rhythmic left-right stimulation — and notice what shifts.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  4. Reevaluation at the Start of Each Session
    Begin every new EMDR session by checking whether last session’s gains held — and what emerged in between.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  5. Work the four channels of traumatic memory: sense, emotion, cognition, meaning
    NET explicitly addresses all four channels in which trauma is encoded — not just thought.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
  6. Imagery rescripting for schema memories
    Revisit a difficult childhood memory in imagination and rewrite it so the child’s needs are met.
    Schema Therapy: Healing Early Maladaptive Beliefs
  7. Body Scan and Session Closure
    Sweep attention through the body after processing to catch residual tension before closing the session.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  8. Identifying and Targeting the Trauma Memory
    Pinpoint the specific memory, its worst moment (the "touchstone"), and the negative belief it installed.
    EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  9. The fly-on-the-wall replay
    Replay a difficult event as if watching it from outside the room rather than from behind your own eyes.
    Self-Distancing Journaling
  10. Narrate the trauma in chronological order within its life context
    Tell the story of a traumatic event — before, during, and after — in the context of the surrounding life.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story

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