Coaching practices for Rigid Rules Disordered Eating

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  • When I slip past one of my strict rules around food I don’t just adjust
  • The fasting has started to feel less like a structure and more like a grip
  • I graze from morning until midnight with no real boundary, snacking late out of boredom, and I want one simple rule
  • My eating has no shape to it
  • I do fine with my eating window until a late dinner with friends comes up, and then I treat the one exception as proof I’ve blown it and abandon the whole thing for a week

Practices that may help

  1. Know when a bright line backfires
    Rigid all-or-nothing rules can fuel disordered patterns — use them with judgment.
    Bright-Line Rules: When "None" Beats "Some"
  2. Know when not to fast
    Recognize the conditions and histories where intermittent fasting is the wrong tool.
    Intermittent Fasting, Honestly Explained
  3. Set a time-restricted eating window
    Confine all your eating to a consistent daily window (e.g. 10–12 hours) and fast the rest.
    Intermittent Fasting, Honestly Explained
  4. Set and hold a consistent eating window
    Pick a 8–12 hour window that starts and ends at the same clock time every day.
    Time-Restricted Eating, Made Practical
  5. Plan for social eating without abandoning the window
    Build a flex strategy for dinners and events so TRE survives contact with real social life.
    Time-Restricted Eating, Made Practical
  6. Eat regularly and pay attention
    Keep meals reasonably regular and eat with attention rather than on autopilot.
    Nutrition and Mood: The Gut-Brain Link, Honestly Explained
  7. Hunger-satiety scale — eating within the 3–7 window
    Eat when hunger reaches 3 on a 0–10 scale and stop when satiety reaches 7 — neither starving nor stuffed.
    Mindful Eating, Made Practical
  8. Serving from a distance, not the table
    Plate food away from where you eat so seconds require a deliberate trip.
    Hara Hachi Bu, Made Practical
  9. Protect the 30% wants budget as a deliberate allocation
    Once the needs and savings are covered, the wants budget is yours to spend without guilt.
    The 50/30/20 Budget: A Simple Framework for Where Your Money Goes
  10. Draw one clear, binary line
    Replace "less" or "moderate" with a rule that is unambiguously on or off.
    Bright-Line Rules: When "None" Beats "Some"

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