Coaching practices for Safety Behavior Fading During a Big Change

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  • I get through the hard situations, but only with my little crutches
  • Every time I get through a feared situation I credit the crutch
  • I’m about to join a whole new group of people who have no idea who I’ve been
  • I can only do certain things if a particular person comes with me
  • I can get through the scary thing now, but only with my little crutches

Practices that may help

  1. Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
    Safety behaviors are actions people take to prevent feared outcomes during anxious situations — sitting to avoid fainting, avoiding eye contact to seem less socially threatening, checking repeatedly to prevent disaster. Paul Salkovskis identified them as a central maintenance mechanism: they prevent the person from learning that the feared outcome would not have happened anyway. Fading them — systematically reducing their use — is an evidence-supported component of CBT for anxiety disorders, with the strongest evidence in panic and social anxiety.
  2. Dropping Safety Behaviors Within Experiments
    Remove the subtle avoidance strategies (safety behaviors) that prevent experiments from genuinely testing the belief.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  3. Run a disconfirmation experiment without the safety behavior
    Enter the feared situation without the safety behavior and observe what actually happens.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  4. Use social transitions to change the norms around your behavior
    When your social group changes, use the transition to adopt the behavioral norms of the new group rather than carrying old ones.
    The Habit Discontinuity Effect
  5. The Habit Discontinuity Effect
    The habit discontinuity effect, studied by Phillippa Lally and Bas Verplanken among others, shows that environmental disruptions — moving house, changing jobs, starting university — weaken the contextual cues that sustain existing habits, creating a window of increased behavior malleability. Evidence comes primarily from observational and survey studies; the effect appears real but its magnitude varies considerably by habit type and individual.
  6. Fade reliance on a support person
    Gradually enter feared situations with decreasing support from a person who has been a source of safety.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  7. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  8. Track your temptation-to-confidence ratio
    Confidence in your ability to resist temptation must outpace the pull of the old behavior.
    The Transtheoretical Model of Change, Made Practical
  9. Reduce covert mental safety behaviors
    Identify and fade the mental acts — rehearsing, planning, distraction — that serve the same function as overt avoidance.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  10. Actively protect valuable existing habits during transitions
    Deliberately transfer the cues for good habits to the new context before the disruption extinguishes them.
    The Habit Discontinuity Effect

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