Coaching practices for Self Handicapping Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup at Work
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The reason I keep leaving myself an out is that deep down I’m not sure I can actually do this
- The big thing is days away and instead of prepping I let something get in the way
- I know exactly how I’ll wreck my own prep
- I catch myself telling everyone how little time I had so the bar stays low
- If I actually tried my hardest and still failed, it would mean I’m just not good enough
Practices that may help
- Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup
Self-handicapping is the strategy of creating obstacles or excuses before a performance so that failure can be attributed to the obstacle rather than to lack of ability — protecting self-esteem at the cost of actual performance. Steven Berglas and Edward Jones documented this in 1978; subsequent research shows it is common, often unconscious, and consistently undermines both performance and long-term well-being. - Build genuine self-efficacy to eliminate the motive
The most durable cure for self-handicapping is a genuine track record of success that makes the excuse unnecessary.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Recognize the self-handicapping pattern in yourself
The tell: you create an obstacle just before a high-stakes performance — and you notice relief, not frustration.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Remove the conditions that enable the handicap
Prevent the specific obstacles you create — environment is easier to change than willpower.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Confess when you are prepared
If you tell people you prepared well, failure costs more — so you prepare more.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Understand what ability belief is being protected
Self-handicapping only makes sense if you believe ability is fixed — work on that belief first.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Reframe the performance as process information, not a verdict
When failure is information rather than a verdict, there’s nothing for the handicap to protect.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Track what the handicap actually costs you
Self-handicapping costs more than it protects — make that cost visible rather than abstract.
Self-Handicapping: Recognizing and Stopping the Excuse Setup - Keep an evidence log
Record concrete proof of your competence to counter the brain’s habit of discounting it.
Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Made Practical - Practice competence re-attribution
After each success, write explicitly which of your skills, decisions, or efforts contributed — before the luck explanation settles in.
Impostor Phenomenon, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Ability Beliefs And Self Sabotage
Self-handicapping only makes sense if you believe ability is fixed — work on that belief first.
Understand what ability belief is being protected
- Berglas Jones Self Handicapping
Self-handicapping is the strategy of creating obstacles or excuses before a performance so that failure can be attributed to the obstacle rather than to lack of ability — protecting self-esteem at the cost of actual performance. Steven Berglas and Edward Jones documented this in 1978; subsequent research shows it is common, often unconscious, and consistently undermines both performance and long-term well-being.
- Cost Of Self Handicapping
Self-handicapping costs more than it protects — make that cost visible rather than abstract.
Track what the handicap actually costs you
- How To Stop Self Sabotage
Self-handicapping is the strategy of creating obstacles or excuses before a performance so that failure can be attributed to the obstacle rather than to lack of ability — protecting self-esteem at the cost of actual performance. Steven Berglas and Edward Jones documented this in 1978; subsequent research shows it is common, often unconscious, and consistently undermines both performance and long-term well-being.
- Long Term Self Handicapping Damage
Self-handicapping costs more than it protects — make that cost visible rather than abstract.
- Recognize Self Handicapping
Self-handicapping is the strategy of creating obstacles or excuses before a performance so that failure can be attributed to the obstacle rather than to lack of ability — protecting self-esteem at the cost of actual performance. Steven Berglas and Edward Jones documented this in 1978; subsequent research shows it is common, often unconscious, and consistently undermines both performance and long-term well-being.
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