Coaching practices for Self Inquiry During Activity

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  • On the cushion I can touch some spaciousness, but the second I get up and start doing things I’m completely lost in them again
  • Whenever I review my own day I quietly spin everything to make myself look better, and I know it
  • I’ve done years of working on myself and I’m starting to suspect the whole project rests on a question I never asked
  • In a still moment I sometimes catch a glimpse of just being the space everything is happening in, not the things happening
  • When I try to ask "who am I" it just turns into more abstract thinking and goes nowhere

Practices that may help

  1. Practise inquiry during activity, not only in formal sitting
    Bring the "who?" question into the middle of daily activities — it doesn’t require stillness.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
  2. Ask for clarity and honest perception
    Before reviewing, pause to ask for the capacity to see honestly rather than defensively.
    The Ignatian Examen: Five Movements of Daily Review
  3. The basic self-inquiry: tracing the "I"-thought to its source
    When a thought arises, ask "To whom does this thought occur?" and trace it back to the sense of I.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
  4. Rest as the witness rather than in objects
    Allow the inquiry to culminate in resting as the awareness that perceives, rather than in any object perceived.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
  5. Locate the feeling of I-ness directly
    Before pursuing "Who am I?" conceptually, first find the raw felt sense of I-ness in the body.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
  6. Apply inquiry when thoughts become distressing
    Instead of engaging with a distressing thought’s content, ask who is troubled by it.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
  7. Reframe passive questions as active questions
    Ask "did I do my best to...?" rather than "how was my...?" — the word "try" changes what the question measures.
    The Morning Questions
  8. Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical
    Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
  9. Apply Socratic questioning to your own thinking (not just others’)
    Use the same question types on your own beliefs that you would use to probe someone else’s.
    Socratic Questioning
  10. Use surrender as a complement to inquiry
    When inquiry feels effortful, Ramana offered surrender — complete releasing of the I’s agenda — as an equally valid path.
    Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation

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