Coaching practices for Situational Leadership During a Big Change

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  • When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
  • I raised the hard truth nobody wanted to hear and now the whole pushback has turned on me
  • Everything still flows through me
  • My team is looking to me to read how bad things really are, and I’m stuck
  • Everyone brings their problems to me to solve, I jump in and fix each one, and now I’m the bottleneck for everything while my people never grow

Practices that may help

  1. Situational Leadership, Made Practical
    Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
  2. Regulate the level of distress in the system
    Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  3. Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
    When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical
  4. Hold steady when the system pushes back
    Expect displacement, scapegoating, and pressure to return to the old equilibrium — and stay the course.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  5. Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
    For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical
  6. Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it
    Develop leadership capacity throughout the team, not just in the designated leader.
    Transformational Leadership, Made Practical
  7. Apply the Stockdale Paradox to teams and leadership
    As a leader or team member under pressure, model the simultaneous holding of faith and brutal facts — it is contagious in both directions.
    The Stockdale Paradox, Made Practical
  8. Give the work back without abandoning people
    Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  9. Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
    Adaptive leadership, developed by Ron Heifetz and Marty Linsky at Harvard, distinguishes between technical problems (solvable with existing expertise) and adaptive challenges (requiring people to change their values, beliefs, or habits). The core skill is resisting the pull to apply technical fixes to adaptive problems — and instead helping people do the hard work of change themselves.
  10. Performing: step back and protect the conditions
    A Performing team needs air cover and resources, not direction.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development

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