Coaching practices for Spoon Theory Before Bed

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• When I’m low I cut everything to conserve, including the few things
• The unavoidable basics
• Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood
• I wake up and just bolt into the day’s to-do list without checking what I’ve actually got in the tank
• I overdid it yesterday and woke up already in the hole, but instead of resting to climb back out I just keep pushing

Practices that may help

1. Spoon Theory, Made Practical
   Spoon Theory — coined by Christine Miserandino to explain life with lupus — uses "spoons" as a metaphor for discrete units of physical and cognitive energy available each day. The framework is particularly useful for anyone managing a chronic condition, recovery, or sustained high load: it makes energy budgeting visible, normalizes limits, and reduces the shame of needing to choose what not to do.
2. Invest spoons in activities that generate more spoons
   Some activities cost spoons but return more than they cost — identify these and protect them even on low-spoon days.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
3. Design spoon-saving versions of necessary activities
   Identify your highest spoon-cost routine activities and redesign them to cost less, so the same life requires fewer spoons to maintain.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
4. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
   A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
5. Begin each day with a realistic spoon count
   Before committing to today’s agenda, honestly estimate how many energy units you are starting with based on sleep, pain, mood, and current load.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
6. Recognize and recover from spoon debt
   When you’ve spent more than you had, treat recovery as a genuine obligation, not as laziness — debt must be repaid before the next draw.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
7. Serving from a distance, not the table
   Plate food away from where you eat so seconds require a deliberate trip.
   Hara Hachi Bu, Made Practical
8. Communicate your spoon count to people who need to know
   Give people close to you a shorthand for your available capacity, so they can adjust expectations without requiring a medical explanation each time.
   Spoon Theory, Made Practical
9. Enforce a firm late-eating cutoff
   Stop eating at least 2–3 hours before your target sleep time.
   Time-Restricted Eating, Made Practical
10. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
    Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep

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