Coaching practices for Stimulus Control for Sleep After a Loss

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• I lie in bed for ages trying to fall asleep, and the bed has become this place where I just fail to sleep
• By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
• When I can’t fall asleep I just stay there, lying in the dark willing it to happen for an hour or more
• The moment I get into bed my brain flips on
• Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood

Practices that may help

1. Stimulus Control for Sleep
   Stimulus control therapy rebuilds the brain’s association between bed and sleepiness by reserving the bed exclusively for sleep, getting out when awake, and keeping a consistent wake time. It is the single most evidence-supported behavioral technique for chronic insomnia and a cornerstone of CBT-I.
2. Apply stimulus control to the sleep environment
   Use the bed only for sleep and sex — no other stimulation — so your body learns that bed means sleep.
   Stimulus Control, Made Practical
3. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
   Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
4. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
   Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
5. Pair sleep restriction with stimulus control
   Use the restricted window only for sleep — not reading, screens, or lying awake — to re-pair the bed with sleepiness.
   Sleep Restriction Therapy
6. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
   A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
7. Design the bedroom as a single-purpose sleep cue
   Make the bedroom feel and look like sleep so every environmental signal primes drowsiness.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
8. Keep screens out of the bedroom
   Reserve the bed for sleep so the space itself cues winding down.
   The Digital Sunset
9. Extend sleep before an anticipated shortfall
   Sleep longer — 9–10 hours if you can tolerate it — for several nights before a period of known sleep restriction.
   Sleep Banking: Building a Buffer Before Sleep Loss
10. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
    Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep

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