Coaching practices for The 90 Second Rule at Work

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  • I give a routine thing
  • I have the thing I want to say right there on my lips
  • That message just landed and my hands are already firing off the reply
  • Every time someone leans over with a "got a sec?" I just drop everything and deal with it, because saying "not right now" feels rude
  • Any meeting I put on the calendar for an hour reliably takes the whole hour even when the actual business is done in twenty minutes

Practices that may help

  1. The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
    Jill Bolte Taylor, in her neuroscience memoir, claimed that the physiological arousal of an emotion cycles through the bloodstream in about 90 seconds — and that if you don’t re-trigger it with thought, it passes. The specific "90 seconds" is a popular claim from a personal account, not a controlled finding; the underlying insight — that emotions are time-limited physiological events that we sustain by ruminating — is well-grounded in emotion science.
  2. The 5 Second Rule, Made Practical
    Mel Robbins’ 5 Second Rule says that when you feel an instinct to act on a goal, count backward 5-4-3-2-1 and move before your brain talks you out of it. It is a practitioner technique, not a tested protocol — but it has a plausible mechanism: the countdown interrupts the hesitation loop and triggers action before deliberation can manufacture an excuse.
  3. Apply time pressure to collapse trivial task duration
    Give yourself half the usual time to complete a routine task and see how little actually suffers.
    Parkinson’s Law of Triviality: Stop Bikeshedding
  4. Use the count for courage to speak or share
    Count down and say the thing — raise your hand, send the message, ask the question — before fear edits it away.
    The 5 Second Rule, Made Practical
  5. Wait before reacting
    In the hot moment, delay action — the emotion will still be available to inform your response once it’s not in control of it.
    The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
  6. Handling external interruptions
    Use the inform–negotiate–schedule–call-back protocol to protect the sprint.
    The Pomodoro Technique, Made Practical
  7. Default to shorter meeting lengths
    Schedule 25- and 50-minute meetings instead of 30 and 60 — the meeting expands only as far as the slot allows.
    Parkinson's Law, Made Practical
  8. The 5-4-3-2-1 countdown
    The moment you feel the pull to act, count backward from five and move on "one."
    The 5 Second Rule, Made Practical
  9. The 10-10-10 Rule
    Suzy Welch's 10-10-10 rule asks you to evaluate a decision through three time horizons: how will I feel about this in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years? It is a heuristic for countering short-term emotional reactions by making long-run consequences more cognitively vivid. Evidence for the technique specifically is limited, but it draws on well-supported research on temporal discounting and affective forecasting.
  10. Use a brief distraction task immediately before execution
    Give working memory something else to do so it can’t hijack your automated skill.
    Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical

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