Coaching practices for The Anxiety Toolkit with My Team

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  • The voice in my head when I’m anxious is brutal
  • There’s a big thing coming up
  • My mind is racing off into every worst-case "what if" and I’m barely in the room anymore
  • The anxiety hits in the middle of a meeting or while I’m standing in line, and I can’t exactly close my eyes and name what I smell in front of everyone
  • I’ve got all these little things I do to get through anxious moments

Practices that may help

  1. The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
    A practical anxiety toolkit pulls together a handful of evidence-informed skills — grounding, breathing, interoceptive awareness, behavioral experiments, and balanced self-talk — so you have the right tool for the moment instead of one move for every situation. Several of these rest on solid clinical and experimental support. They are self-help skills for everyday stress and anxiety; for severe or persistent anxiety, use them alongside professional care.
  2. Balanced, compassionate self-talk
    Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  3. Apply EFT to specific performance anxiety triggers
    EFT has the strongest self-guided evidence for test anxiety, public speaking, and sports performance stress.
    EFT Tapping: What It Is, How to Do It, and What the Evidence Shows
  4. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
    Name five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  5. Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
    In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  6. Map your safety-behavior inventory
    List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  7. Rehearse the response before you need it
    Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  8. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  9. Rapid relaxation: achieve a relaxation response in 20–30 seconds
    Deploy a practiced, condensed relaxation sequence the moment anxiety begins rising.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  10. Use humor as a therapeutic distance-maker
    Practice narrating your anxiety to an imaginary sympathetic audience — make it funny.
    Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention

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