Coaching practices for The Energy Audit After a Loss

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  • I have this vague sense I’m running low but I couldn’t tell you on what
  • I know I’m running on empty but I genuinely can’t tell what kind of empty — is it my body, my mood, my focus, or that I’ve lost the thread of why any of this matters?
  • I only ever realize how depleted I am once some small thing has already knocked me flat
  • I push straight through for hours with no breaks because stopping feels like slacking, and by mid-afternoon the quality of everything I produce has quietly fallen off a cliff
  • The big blowup is over but I’m completely wrung out

Practices that may help

  1. The Energy Audit
    Loehr and Schwartz argue that high performance is fundamentally an energy management problem, not a time management problem: you have four energy reservoirs — physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual — and sustained performance requires both spending and renewing each. The framework is a compelling clinical synthesis; direct RCT evidence for the four-quadrant model itself is limited.
  2. Audit your current resource base
    Take stock of where you stand in each resource category — objects, conditions, characteristics, and energies — before the next stressor arrives.
    Conservation of Resources Theory, Made Practical
  3. Run a four-quadrant energy audit
    Map your current physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual energy levels honestly before intervening in any one dimension.
    The Energy Audit
  4. Audit your resilience account regularly
    Periodically assess the key resilience deposits — sleep, relationships, meaning, recovery — before a withdrawal makes the deficit visible.
    The Resilience Bank Account, Made Practical
  5. Build rhythmic oscillation between stress and recovery
    High performance is not sustained effort — it is deliberate alternation between full engagement and full recovery.
    The Energy Audit
  6. Recover and recharge after intense emotion
    After an emotional peak, deliberately allow recovery time — intense arousal depletes resources.
    The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
  7. Build emotional energy rituals to buffer against daily depletion
    Emotional energy is the quality of emotional availability you bring to work and relationships — and it is trainable through brief daily rituals.
    Energy Management, Not Time Management
  8. Identify and shift emotional energy drains
    Chronic negative emotions are not just unpleasant — they are metabolic and cognitive loads that drain performance capacity.
    The Energy Audit
  9. Treat physical energy as the foundation of all other dimensions
    Sleep, movement, and nutrition are not separate wellness items — they are the substrate that makes emotional, mental, and spiritual energy possible.
    The Energy Audit
  10. Design a personalized recovery ritual
    Generic recovery advice fails because recovery is individual — what restores one person’s energy taxes another’s; map your own recovery inputs.
    Energy Management, Not Time Management

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