Coaching practices for The Hedonic Treadmill Before Bed

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  • Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood
  • I want to stop the bedtime scroll, but if I just lie there with nothing my mind races, so I keep reaching for the phone again because I don’t know what else to do with that wind-down hour.
  • It’s not the brightness that gets me
  • My bed has basically become where I scroll and watch shows, not where I sleep
  • I work or scroll right up until the moment I switch off the light and then expect my brain to drop into sleep on command

Practices that may help

  1. The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical
    The hedonic treadmill describes the human tendency to return to a roughly stable level of wellbeing after positive or negative life events — which means that chasing external outcomes for lasting happiness is largely futile. Research since Brickman and Campbell suggests the set point is real but not fixed: deliberate practices (gratitude, savoring, varied experiences) can raise it modestly.
  2. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  3. Replace phone scrolling with a physical book at bedtime
    A physical book provides relaxation without blue light, notifications, or the variable-reward loop.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  4. Curb stimulating content before bed
    Cut the arousing, attention-grabbing content, not just the screen brightness.
    The Digital Sunset
  5. Keep screens out of the bedroom
    Reserve the bed for sleep so the space itself cues winding down.
    The Digital Sunset
  6. Build a wind-down buffer before bed
    Spend 30–60 minutes downshifting so the brain can transition out of high arousal.
    Sleep Hygiene That Actually Moves the Needle
  7. Set a screen cutoff time
    Pick a consistent hour to put screens away and protect the wind-down window.
    The Digital Sunset
  8. Build a consistent pre-sleep wind-down routine
    Create a repeatable 30-60 minute pre-sleep sequence that cues the nervous system toward rest.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  9. Restore the bedroom as a stimulus for sleep only
    Reserve the bed exclusively for sleep and sex — no working, scrolling, or watching in bed.
    The Phone-Free Bedroom
  10. Pre-sleep trataka for insomnia and mind-calming
    A ten-minute trataka session in low light before bed draws scattered thoughts into a single point.
    Trataka: The Yoga Practice of Fixed-Gaze Meditation

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