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  • We keep going in circles arguing about who’s right, both certain
  • I’ve already decided what’s going on and I’m about to act on it
  • I’ve held this view of someone for so long that it’s become self-confirming
  • I keep doubling down to justify the last round
  • My conclusion only makes sense because of a bunch of things I’m silently taking for granted about people and how the world works

Practices that may help

  1. The Ladder of Inference
    Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
  2. Walk down the ladder together in disagreements
    In conflict, stop arguing about conclusions and descend together to the data level.
    The Ladder of Inference
  3. Test conclusions before acting on them
    Treat your conclusion as a hypothesis and find one piece of evidence that would confirm or disconfirm it.
    The Ladder of Inference
  4. Slow the reflexive loop
    Your current beliefs shape which data you select, reinforcing themselves — interrupt this loop deliberately.
    The Ladder of Inference
  5. Actively watch for escalation of commitment
    Each new investment in a losing course makes the next exit harder — catch escalation early.
    The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Escaping Bad Investments
  6. Surface and examine the assumptions you are making
    Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
    The Ladder of Inference
  7. Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate
    A loss looks catastrophic in isolation and trivial across the whole portfolio of your life.
    Loss Aversion, Made Practical
  8. Study the gap between prediction and result with honesty
    Compare what you expected to what happened, and resist the urge to explain the gap away.
    Plan–Do–Study–Act: Deming’s Loop for Personal Improvement
  9. Set the reference point before you introduce the loss
    Loss is always measured from a reference point — who sets that point controls the framing.
    The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
  10. Run a structured mastery debrief after each performance
    Immediately after any significant attempt, extract what worked before the memory fades.
    Mastery Experiences

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