Coaching practices for The Ladder of Inference for My Teenager
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- I’ve already decided what’s going on and I’m about to act on it
- I’ve held this view of someone for so long that it’s become self-confirming
- We keep going in circles arguing about who’s right, both certain
- My conclusion only makes sense because of a bunch of things I’m silently taking for granted about people and how the world works
- The gap between where I am and where I want to be feels like one giant impossible leap, so I freeze and never start
Practices that may help
- The Ladder of Inference
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions. - Test conclusions before acting on them
Treat your conclusion as a hypothesis and find one piece of evidence that would confirm or disconfirm it.
The Ladder of Inference - Slow the reflexive loop
Your current beliefs shape which data you select, reinforcing themselves — interrupt this loop deliberately.
The Ladder of Inference - Walk down the ladder together in disagreements
In conflict, stop arguing about conclusions and descend together to the data level.
The Ladder of Inference - Surface and examine the assumptions you are making
Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
The Ladder of Inference - Build a progressive difficulty ladder
Map the skill you want into a sequence of steps from just-manageable to genuinely challenging, then climb it one rung at a time.
Mastery Experiences - Map every link in the chain — thoughts, feelings, urges, actions
Walk from the prompting event to the problem behavior one step at a time, naming each link explicitly.
Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors - Verify the root cause by tracing back up the chain
After reaching a root, work back up: does each "because" in the chain make logical sense?
The Five Whys - Design logical consequences that are directly related to the behavior
The consequence should be the logical response to the choice, so the child sees the connection.
Natural and Logical Consequences (Rudolf Dreikurs) - Self-explain at every step
Pause after each idea and ask: "Why does this follow from the last point?"
The Generation Effect: Why Making It Yourself Makes It Stick
Related concerns
- The Ladder Of Inference With My Team
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- Chris Argyris Ladder
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference As A Caregiver
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference At Work
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference During A Big Change
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference In A New Job
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
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