Coaching practices for The Outside View After a Loss
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For The Outside View After a Loss, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- This one loss feels like the end of the world when I stare right at it, and I keep checking it obsessively, which only makes it worse
- I keep going over what happened wanting to actually understand it, but every replay just drops me back into reliving the hurt blow by blow instead of figuring out why it went the way it did
- I’ve built such a vivid, convincing story about why this particular bet will pay off that I’ve completely stopped asking how often things like this actually work out
- Every time something goes sideways we replay it looking for who dropped the ball, and the wins we never examine at all
- I’m about to lock in a plan that feels airtight from the inside
Practices that may help
- The Outside View
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial. - Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate
A loss looks catastrophic in isolation and trivial across the whole portfolio of your life.
Loss Aversion, Made Practical - Take the fly-on-the-wall perspective
Replay a distressing event as a distant observer watching from afar, not from inside your own eyes.
Self-Distancing: Thinking Clearly About Your Own Problems - Check the outside view before trusting the inside view
Ask how similar situations have gone before trusting your story about this specific situation.
Thinking in Bets - Run brief after-action reviews without blame
After any significant outcome — success or failure — ask four questions together as a team.
Psychological Safety in Teams - Invoke the outside view before committing to any significant plan
Before finalizing a plan or forecast, ask "How did similar things go?" as the first checkpoint.
The Outside View - Reframing loss as transformation
When something ends or is lost, practise asking what it is becoming rather than only mourning what it was.
Zhuangzi and the Practice of Perspective Shift - Review process goal execution separately from outcomes after each performance
Evaluate how well you executed your process goals independently of whether you won or lost.
Process Goals, Made Practical - Write the observer’s account of the event
Write a third-person account of what an average observer actually saw — not what you felt.
The Spotlight Effect: Why You Think Everyone Is Watching - Replace judgment with non-judgmental awareness
Observe what is actually happening with curious interest rather than approval or disapproval.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
Related concerns
- Inside View Outside View
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial.
- The Outside View With Friends
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial.
- The View From Above After A Loss
A loss looks catastrophic in isolation and trivial across the whole portfolio of your life.
Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate
- Inside View Vs Outside View Kahneman
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial.
- Kahneman Outside View
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial.
- Outside View
The outside view, a concept Kahneman developed with Amos Tversky, means stepping back from the specifics of your situation and asking: how did things like this tend to go in the past? It reliably corrects the optimism bias built into narrative-based (inside-view) planning, and the research base — particularly on planning and forecasting accuracy — is substantial.
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