Coaching practices for Thinking in Bets After a Loss
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep saying I’m certain about this, but the second I imagine actually putting real money on it I get this twist of hesitation
- I keep passing on bets that are clearly worth it over the long run, because the sting of the likely small loss looms so much larger than the rare big win
- I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was the right move with what I knew, and I let myself off the hook for reckless ones that happened to work out
- I’ve built such a vivid, convincing story about why this particular bet will pay off that I’ve completely stopped asking how often things like this actually work out
- I’m excited about this plan and so committed to it that I can’t honestly see what might sink it
Practices that may help
- Thinking in Bets
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out. - Translate beliefs into bets to reveal your true confidence
Would you bet $100 on that belief at even odds? The answer often reveals the gap between claimed and actual confidence.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Accept positive-EV decisions even when they feel uncomfortable
If the expected value is clearly positive, take the decision — even if most individual outcomes are losses.
Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty - Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
Thinking in Bets - Check the outside view before trusting the inside view
Ask how similar situations have gone before trusting your story about this specific situation.
Thinking in Bets - Run a premortem before committing
Imagine the decision has already failed — then ask why.
Thinking in Bets - Anti-charity stakes
Pledge that failure sends your money to a cause you despise.
Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts) - Update beliefs explicitly when new information arrives
Treat new information as a reason to state a revised probability, not as confirmation of the old one.
Thinking in Bets - Pre-commit to a rule before the loss is live
Decide your action in a cool moment so the hot, loss-averse moment cannot hijack it.
Loss Aversion, Made Practical - Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
The Scout Mindset
Related concerns
- Annie Duke Thinking In Bets
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
- Thinking In Bets At Work
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
- Belief Betting
Would you bet $100 on that belief at even odds? The answer often reveals the gap between claimed and actual confidence.
Translate beliefs into bets to reveal your true confidence
- Thinking In Bets After A Setback
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
- Thinking In Bets During A Big Change
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
- Thinking In Bets When Starting Out
Annie Duke's thinking in bets framework treats decisions as bets with uncertain outcomes, separating the quality of the decision from the quality of the outcome. Most real decisions involve incomplete information, so good decision-making is about process and probability, not about being right every time. The core skill is evaluating decisions on the information available at the time, not on how they turned out.
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