Coaching practices for Thomas Borkovec Worry

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• The same worry keeps circling back through my mind on a loop, popping up again and again, and I think part of why it won’t quit is that I’ve never actually decided what I’d do if the thing I fear came true
• When I try to sort my worries in my head, the thinking just breeds more thinking and I lose track of what I’ve even covered
• There’s a real problem I genuinely could act on, but instead of taking one step I just keep turning it over in my head, and the worry stays loud precisely because I’ve never actually decided what I’m going to do about it.
• I’m convinced that if I send this message or speak up in the meeting, people will think I’m incompetent
• My worries all blur into one big undifferentiated dread, and I can’t tell which ones I could actually do something about right now and which are just what-ifs I’m powerless over

Practices that may help

1. Worry Exposure, Made Practical
   Worry exposure, developed by Thomas Borkovec as part of his CBT for generalized anxiety disorder, reverses the usual avoidance strategy: instead of suppressing or distracting from worry, you deliberately face the feared scenario in detail, allowing the anxiety to peak and then naturally subside. It is a form of imaginal exposure applied specifically to chronic worry. The evidence base is the broader CBT-GAD literature, in which worry-exposure elements appear as part of well-supported treatment packages.
2. Use worry journaling to close emotional open loops
   Write recurring worry thoughts down with a specific planned response — this stops them cycling through working memory.
   The Zeigarnik Effect: How Unfinished Tasks Occupy Your Mind
3. Use written worry-tree sorting to externalise the loop
   Write each worry through the decision branches rather than running the tree in your head.
   The Worry Tree
4. Turn current problems into a concrete action plan
   For worries that are real and actionable, define one next step and schedule it.
   The Worry Tree
5. Test worry predictions with small behavioural experiments
   Treat a feared outcome as a hypothesis and design a small real-world test.
   The Worry Tree
6. Classify the worry as current or hypothetical
   Ask: "Is this a real problem happening now, or a what-if scenario?"
   The Worry Tree
7. Separate solvable worries from unsolvable ones
   Triage each worry into "act on it" or "let it go," and treat each kind differently.
   Worry Postponement, Made Practical
8. The Worry Tree
   The Worry Tree is a CBT decision-tree technique that sorts worries into "current problems I can act on" versus "hypothetical worries I cannot," then channels the first toward problem-solving and the second toward letting go. It interrupts ruminative loops by replacing open-ended worry with a structured, finite process.
9. Contain worry in a designated worry period
   Defer non-urgent worry to a fixed 20-minute window later in the day.
   The Worry Tree
10. Distinguish actionable from non-actionable worries
    Triage each worry: is there one thing you could actually do about it? If yes, plan it. If no, that's the exposure target.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical

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