Coaching practices for Three Life Plans

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’ve quietly decided there’s only one acceptable version of my life and I’m white-knuckling toward it
  • I’ve got exactly one picture of how my next five years go and I keep polishing it, but it’s never occurred to me to seriously imagine a completely different life
  • I’ve got these very different visions of my life on paper and I’m staring at them wondering what’s actually me underneath all of them
  • One future excites me but I don’t believe I could pull it off, another I could do but it’d cost me who I am
  • I keep running this other life in my head, imagining how amazing or how awful it would be, but it’s all guesswork

Practices that may help

  1. Draft three genuinely different five-year plans
    Sketch three distinct five-year lives — not variations on the same theme, but genuinely different directions.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  2. Draft three Odyssey Plans
    Sketch three different five-year lives — not variations on one, but genuinely divergent paths.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  3. Build a coherent narrative across your three plans
    Find the values and themes that appear across all three plans — they are your non-negotiables.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  4. Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
    Odyssey plans are a practice from Bill Burnett and Dave Evans’s "Designing Your Life" framework in which you sketch out three distinct five-year life plans — not ranked by desirability, but genuinely different in direction. The exercise exploits prototyping logic from design thinking: holding alternatives in parallel prevents premature commitment and reveals assumptions you did not know you were making.
  5. Rate each plan on confidence, interest, and coherence
    Score each plan on whether you find it engaging, whether you could execute it, and whether it fits who you are.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  6. Run prototyping conversations before committing to a plan
    Talk to people already living your Plan B or C before you decide whether to pursue it.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  7. Run a small experiment before committing to Plan B or C
    Design the smallest possible real-world experience that would tell you something true about a plan before you commit to it.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  8. The future life line
    Extend your timeline forward and sketch the peaks and turning points you want to create — then work backward to today.
    The Life Line Exercise
  9. Track your life gauges: work, play, love, health
    Monitor how full your "energy tanks" in four life domains are before making a major plan decision.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  10. Review and update your conscious spending plan annually
    Treat your plan as a living document that reflects who you are this year, not who you were.
    Conscious Spending Plan, Made Practical

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