Coaching practices for Trauma Meaning Writing

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • The story of why this happened to me has been running on a loop in my head for so long, all tangled up with blame and shame, that I’ve never once written it down plainly
  • The day they died still plays in my head in jagged pieces
  • I’ve told the story plenty of times
  • What I went through cracked open everything I used to take for granted about how life works and what it’s for
  • The story I carry about my own life is fragmented and full of shame, and I want it written down properly somewhere outside my head

Practices that may help

  1. Write an impact statement — why the trauma happened and how it affected you
    A written account of the meaning you made of the trauma is CPT’s starting point for finding stuck points.
    Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT): Unsticking the Meanings That Maintain PTSD
  2. Retell the story of the death and its aftermath
    Construct a coherent, detailed narrative of the loss — including your experience before, during, and after.
    Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
  3. Work the four channels of traumatic memory: sense, emotion, cognition, meaning
    NET explicitly addresses all four channels in which trauma is encoded — not just thought.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
  4. Domain 4 — Spiritual or existential change
    Confronting limits and mortality can deepen or reshape your sense of meaning and the sacred.
    Post-Traumatic Growth, Made Practical
  5. Create a testimony document
    NET produces a written testimony of the person’s life — a document that the person and therapist co-author and that the person keeps.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
  6. Construct a lifeline
    Lay out your entire life chronologically using symbolic markers — stones for traumatic events, flowers for positive ones.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
  7. Use the Pennebaker expressive writing protocol for difficult experiences
    Write continuously for 15-20 minutes about a difficult experience — including your thoughts, feelings, and its connection to the rest of your life.
    Journaling for Clarity
  8. Narrate the trauma in chronological order within its life context
    Tell the story of a traumatic event — before, during, and after — in the context of the surrounding life.
    Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
  9. Understand what PTG is — and is not
    Growth from struggling with trauma is real, but it is not guaranteed, not required, and not a silver lining.
    Post-Traumatic Growth, Made Practical
  10. Practicing deliberate choice in movement
    Make explicit micro-decisions during movement to rebuild the felt experience of agency.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety

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