Coaching practices for Try to Stay Awake Sleep

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  • The more desperately I try to make myself fall asleep, the more wide awake I get
  • The second I lie down and close my eyes to do this I’m fighting sleep
  • When I can’t fall asleep I just stay there, lying in the dark willing it to happen for an hour or more
  • I lie there checking every few minutes whether I’m asleep yet, and the monitoring keeps me wired
  • I go to bed at the hour I think I’m "supposed" to, lie there wide awake and alert, and then count every minute I’m not asleep

Practices that may help

  1. Apply paradoxical intention to insomnia: try to stay awake
    When you cannot sleep, commit fully to staying awake — observe what happens.
    Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention
  2. Working with drowsiness — staying present while lying down
    Use specific techniques to maintain alertness during the body scan without fighting sleepiness.
    Body Scan Meditation, Made Practical
  3. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
    Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  4. Apply dereflection to insomnia and sleep anxiety
    When you cannot sleep, stop trying to sleep and redirect attention to something you are genuinely curious about instead.
    Logotherapy: Dereflection
  5. Go to bed only when sleepy, not just tired
    Learn to distinguish genuine sleepiness from tiredness and wait for the former before going to bed.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  6. Work with sleep pressure (the adenosine clock)
    Let adenosine build across the day instead of papering over it with caffeine and naps.
    Why We Sleep, Translated Into Practice
  7. Align your sleep window with the circadian gate
    Go to bed when both systems are aligned: sleep pressure is high AND the clock is in its sleep phase.
    The Two-Process Model of Sleep
  8. Avoid the wake maintenance zone (avoid early evening naps)
    The 1–3 hours before your natural bedtime is when the circadian system actively fights sleep — working with this window rather than against it preserves sleep pressure.
    Sleep Pressure and Adenosine: The Science of Feeling Sleepy
  9. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
    Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  10. Use vigorous daytime activity to build a clean Process S curve
    Physical and mental activity during the day steepen the sleep pressure curve, making evening sleepiness arrive on time.
    The Two-Process Model of Sleep

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