Coaching practices for Update Ifs Map

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  • A part of me that used to be brutally harsh has genuinely softened lately, but I notice I’m still relating to it like the old enemy it used to be
  • A lot has changed for me lately
  • My partner is going through a huge change right now
  • The wounded part has unburdened, but the guards that spent years bracing against its pain are still on full alert
  • We sorted out who owned what at kickoff, but the project has shifted and two people have left since then, and now decisions are getting made by folks who aren’t even in those roles anymore

Practices that may help

  1. Update the map as parts shift
    Revisit and revise the map after significant inner work — the system changes, and the map should too.
    IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical
  2. IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical
    Parts mapping is an Internal Family Systems (Richard Schwartz) practice of systematically identifying and visually or narratively charting the distinct inner parts — critics, worriers, peacekeepers, wounded exiles — and their relationships to each other. It is a diagnostic and orientation tool: it shows you the terrain of your inner system before you try to work with any single part. Evidence sits within the broader IFS and parts-work literature, which is growing but not yet on par with CBT or DBT.
  3. The seasonal values revisit
    Re-sort your cards every three to six months — values shift, and the map should too.
    Values Card Sort
  4. Update your love map after major life changes
    When life shifts, assume your map is outdated and ask new questions.
    Love Maps: Knowing Your Partner's Inner World
  5. Update protectors after an unburdening
    Tell the protectors what changed — they often do not know the burden has been released.
    IFS Unburdening, Made Practical
  6. Review the RACI when scope or team changes
    A RACI built at kickoff and never updated is out of date the moment the first change happens.
    The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
  7. Distinguish protectors from exiles
    Sort your parts into those who manage and firefight (protectors) vs those who carry old wounds (exiles).
    IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical
  8. Carry unfinished tasks to tomorrow’s list — and evaluate whether they belong
    Anything from today that isn’t done goes through the same six-slot prioritization tomorrow, not automatic carry-over.
    The Ivy Lee Method, Made Practical
  9. Update your forecast incrementally as new evidence arrives
    Treat your forecast as a probability that should shift with each new piece of evidence, not a commitment that survives contradiction.
    Reference Class Forecasting
  10. Use the map to prepare for known triggers
    Before a triggering situation, identify which part is likely to activate and what it will need.
    IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical

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