Coaching practices for Via Character Strengths When Overwhelmed

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The very thing I’m best at turns on me under pressure
• I already know what I’m good at, but I only ever use those strengths in the same few familiar places
• I spend so much energy trying to fix my weak spots that my days feel like a grind against my own grain
• If you asked me to name what I’m actually good at, I’d freeze
• I only try to summon this resilient mindset when something big and scary hits

Practices that may help

1. Map how your strengths distort under stress
   Identify the "overuse" and "underuse" of each signature strength — how they show up when you’re at your worst.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
2. Use a signature strength in a new way each day for one week
   Apply one of your top character strengths to a context or relationship where you don’t normally use it.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
3. VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
   Peterson and Seligman’s VIA Classification identifies 24 character strengths organized under six virtues, and multiple randomized trials find that using your top "signature strengths" in new ways reliably increases well-being and decreases depressive symptoms. The effect is most robust when strengths are deployed in engaged, relational ways — not just recognized but actively applied.
4. Use your signature strengths in a new way
   Identify your top character strengths and deploy one of them differently each day.
   Positive Psychology, Made Practical
5. Take the VIA survey and identify your signature strengths
   Discover your top five to seven character strengths using the validated VIA survey.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
6. Practice the three Cs in low-stakes situations first
   Build hardiness habits in minor stressors so they are automatic when major ones arrive.
   Psychological Hardiness, Made Practical
7. Spot and name character strengths in others
   Notice and explicitly name the character strengths you observe in people around you.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
8. Connect individual strengths to the broader virtues they serve
   Understand which of the six VIA virtues your signature strengths express, and what that reveals about your character.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
9. Recognise stress-driven backup behaviour
   Under stress, everyone shifts to an exaggerated, less effective version of their dominant style.
   Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate
10. Prepare coping self-talk in advance
    Script what you will say to yourself at the trigger, during the peak, and afterward — before you need it.
    Stress Inoculation Training

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