Coaching practices for Vigilant Self Attention
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My attention feels welded to the inside of my own head
- In any conversation I’m so busy watching myself
- I react before I’ve even decided to
- When a feeling takes me over I become it completely
- The moment I’m in a room with people I’m trapped watching myself
Practices that may help
- Attention training technique (ATT)
Practice deliberately shifting attention across sounds — a drill that builds attention flexibility and reduces self-focus.
Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical - Shift attention outward during social situations
Direct your focus to what the other person is saying and feeling, not to how you appear.
The Spotlight Effect: Why You Think Everyone Is Watching - Prosoche — the practice of attention
Maintain constant, vigilant attention to your own thoughts, judgments, and impulses as they arise.
Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises - Notice the noticer: find the observing awareness
Shift attention from what you are noticing to the awareness that is doing the noticing.
The Witness Stance - Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical - Expanding to panoramic awareness
Deliberately widen attention from its usual narrow focal point to include the full field of sensory experience simultaneously.
Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical - Train flexible attention
Practise deliberately moving attention between external cues and internal experience — and back.
Detached Mindfulness, Made Practical - Use improved attention to observe metacognitive beliefs
Apply attentional control to notice — without engaging — the beliefs that drive overthinking.
Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical - Develop introspective metacognition
Train the ability to notice, in real time, when attention has wandered — before you’ve been distracted for a long time.
Shamatha: The Buddhist Practice of Calm Abiding - Shift identity from self-concept to awareness itself
Experiment with "I am the aware space" rather than "I am my thoughts and feelings."
Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
Related concerns
- External Focus Of Attention
External focus of attention — directing attention to the intended effect of a movement (where the ball goes, where force is applied) rather than to body mechanics — consistently outperforms internal focus for both skill learning and execution. Gabriele Wulf’s OPTIMAL theory proposes two mechanisms: external focus activates automatic motor control processes, and it enhances competence need satisfaction. Effect sizes in controlled experiments are moderate to large.
- External Focus Of Attention As A Caregiver
Direct your focus to what the other person is saying and feeling, not to how you appear.
Shift attention outward during social situations
- External Focus Of Attention For My Teenager
Direct your focus to what the other person is saying and feeling, not to how you appear.
- External Focus Of Attention When Overwhelmed
In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
- When Detached Mindfulness Attention Flexibility Practice
Practise deliberately moving attention between external cues and internal experience — and back.
Train flexible attention
- Attention Shifting Anxiety
Switch attention between sound sources on cue, making each shift deliberate and immediate.
Rapid attention shifting between sounds
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