Coaching practices for Virtue by Repetition
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Virtue by Repetition, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep wishing I were a more patient, more generous person, like it’s a trait I’m just missing
- I keep trying to fix one trait
- I keep waiting until I feel brave or patient or generous before I act that way, and the feeling never reliably shows up
- I want to actually become a better person, not just vaguely intend to, but "be better" is so fuzzy I never know what I’m working on
- I want to become a better person but "be better" is too vague to act on
Practices that may help
- Building character through deliberate repetition
Choose one character quality you want to embody and perform one specific act of it daily until it no longer requires effort.
Aristotelian Eudaimonia: Flourishing Through Virtue - Practice virtues as interconnected, not separate
When a virtue feels absent, look for which related virtue is also being neglected.
Virtue Ethics, Made Practical - Cultivate virtue through deliberate habituation
Do the virtuous action — even imperfectly, even without the feeling — until the disposition follows.
Virtue Ethics, Made Practical - The virtue audit
Ask which of the four Stoic virtues you exercised — and which you neglected — today.
The Stoic Daily Review - Identify the virtues you most need to cultivate
Name the three character traits whose absence most limits you — those are your practice targets.
Virtue Ethics, Made Practical - Name and wrestle with your besetting weakness
Identify the one recurring moral failure and choose a practice that confronts it daily.
The Eulogy Virtues: Building a Life of Character - Embed your virtues in a practice community
The virtues needed for excellence in any serious practice (craft, sport, relationship) are real virtues — find the practice that calls them out.
Virtue Ethics, Made Practical - Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
Virtue ethics, developed by Aristotle and extended by thinkers like Alasdair MacIntyre, holds that ethics is primarily about who you are rather than which rules you follow or which outcomes you produce. The practical core: identify the virtues a flourishing human being needs, and train them through deliberate habitual action — because character is what you repeatedly do, not what you occasionally decide. - Learning through exemplar study
Study the conduct of a person you consider exemplary and identify one specific behaviour you can emulate.
Confucian Self-Cultivation: The Mencius Approach - Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment
Catch the child demonstrating a virtue and name the virtue directly.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser)
Related concerns
- How To Develop A Virtue
Do the virtuous action — even imperfectly, even without the feeling — until the disposition follows.
Cultivate virtue through deliberate habituation
- Four Cardinal Virtues Daily
Ask which of the four Stoic virtues you exercised — and which you neglected — today.
The virtue audit
- How To Build Virtue
Name the three character traits whose absence most limits you — those are your practice targets.
Identify the virtues you most need to cultivate
- Virtue Ethics Daily Life
Virtue ethics, developed by Aristotle and extended by thinkers like Alasdair MacIntyre, holds that ethics is primarily about who you are rather than which rules you follow or which outcomes you produce. The practical core: identify the virtues a flourishing human being needs, and train them through deliberate habitual action — because character is what you repeatedly do, not what you occasionally decide.
- Virtue Ethics Daily Practice
Virtue ethics, developed by Aristotle and extended by thinkers like Alasdair MacIntyre, holds that ethics is primarily about who you are rather than which rules you follow or which outcomes you produce. The practical core: identify the virtues a flourishing human being needs, and train them through deliberate habitual action — because character is what you repeatedly do, not what you occasionally decide.
- Acting As Role Model Virtue
Select a specific person whose character in a specific domain you want to internalize, and study how they act — not just what they say.
Choose and study role models deliberately
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