Coaching practices for Virtue Ethics for My Teenager

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I want to become a better person but "be better" is too vague to act on
• I keep waiting until I feel brave or patient or generous before I act that way, and the feeling never reliably shows up
• I work on my character all in my own head, by my own standards, and it stays abstract and unproven
• I keep trying to fix one trait
• I treat each choice as its own isolated thing

Practices that may help

1. Identify the virtues you most need to cultivate
   Name the three character traits whose absence most limits you — those are your practice targets.
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
2. Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
   Virtue ethics, developed by Aristotle and extended by thinkers like Alasdair MacIntyre, holds that ethics is primarily about who you are rather than which rules you follow or which outcomes you produce. The practical core: identify the virtues a flourishing human being needs, and train them through deliberate habitual action — because character is what you repeatedly do, not what you occasionally decide.
3. Cultivate virtue through deliberate habituation
   Do the virtuous action — even imperfectly, even without the feeling — until the disposition follows.
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
4. Embed your virtues in a practice community
   The virtues needed for excellence in any serious practice (craft, sport, relationship) are real virtues — find the practice that calls them out.
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
5. Practice virtues as interconnected, not separate
   When a virtue feels absent, look for which related virtue is also being neglected.
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
6. View your life as a narrative, not a sequence of choices
   Ask: what story am I living, and does it reflect the character I am trying to build?
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
7. The virtue audit
   Ask which of the four Stoic virtues you exercised — and which you neglected — today.
   The Stoic Daily Review
8. Choose and study role models deliberately
   Select a specific person whose character in a specific domain you want to internalize, and study how they act — not just what they say.
   Virtue Ethics, Made Practical
9. Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment
   Catch the child demonstrating a virtue and name the virtue directly.
   The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser)
10. Connect individual strengths to the broader virtues they serve
    Understand which of the six VIA virtues your signature strengths express, and what that reveals about your character.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical

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