Coaching practices for Want Should Audit
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I finally tracked my time and now I’m staring at the numbers
- I’m good at my job and on top of my commitments, and yet I’m quietly miserable
- I keep these apps because I’m scared I’ll miss something important, but when I’m honest about what I actually got from all those hours this week, it’s almost nothing
- There’s a low hum of dissatisfaction in my life I can’t pin down
- I want to pair a guilty pleasure with a chore I keep dodging, but I can’t tell which of my treats and which of my avoided tasks would actually fit together
Practices that may help
- The Time Audit
Laura Vanderkam argues that most people do not have a time shortage but a time-awareness problem: they underestimate how much discretionary time exists in 168 weekly hours. A time audit — tracking actual time use for a week — almost always reveals significant gaps between perceived and actual allocation, which is the foundation for intentional redesign. The method is straightforward; the hard part is using what you find. - Analyze your log for patterns and surprises
After logging, find the two or three surprising facts — not the obvious ones.
The Time Audit - Apply the matrix at the role level, not just the task level
Audit which of your entire roles or commitments are Q1, Q2, Q3, or Q4 — not just individual tasks.
The Eisenhower Life Audit - Run a weekly platform value audit
Once a week, assess whether each platform you used is actually delivering value proportional to the time it received.
Defending Your Attention in the Attention Economy - Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values?
Rate both how important each value is and how consistently you have been living it — the gap is where to focus.
Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical - Audit your wants and shoulds to find bundle candidates
List the things you want to do but feel guilty about alongside the things you know you should do but avoid.
Temptation Bundling, Made Practical - Run a quarterly life audit, not just an annual one
Review all four quadrants of your life every 90 days while the feedback loop is still tight enough to correct.
The Eisenhower Life Audit - The Eisenhower Life Audit
The Eisenhower life audit applies the urgent-vs-important matrix to your entire life — not just a task list — to expose how much time is going to the urgent and shallow versus the important and deep. The matrix itself is a practitioner tool; the underlying insight that urgency and importance are different dimensions that humans routinely conflate is well supported in decision-making research. - Share the review with someone who will ask honest questions
A review held privately is easier to fudge; one shared with an honest questioner is harder to rationalize.
The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method) - The values–behavior gap check
Audit the last week: which of your top values did your actual decisions honor?
Values Card Sort
Related concerns
- Ought Self Audit
People systematically miscalibrate self-monitoring — periodic objective checks correct the drift.
Periodically compare self-ratings with objective data
- Values Audit
Rate both how important each value is and how consistently you have been living it — the gap is where to focus.
Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values?
- Default Audit
After logging, find the two or three surprising facts — not the obvious ones.
Analyze your log for patterns and surprises
- Eisenhower Matrix Time Audit
The Eisenhower life audit applies the urgent-vs-important matrix to your entire life — not just a task list — to expose how much time is going to the urgent and shallow versus the important and deep. The matrix itself is a practitioner tool; the underlying insight that urgency and importance are different dimensions that humans routinely conflate is well supported in decision-making research.
- Jargon Audit
Go word by word through your explanation and mark every term a newcomer would not know.
Run a jargon audit on every key explanation
- Legacy Audit
Inventory the beliefs, behaviors, and structures you are transmitting — not just the ones you intend to.
Legacy audit: mapping what you are passing on
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