Coaching practices for Weiner Attribution Model

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• When something goes wrong I just get hit with a wave of "I always fail at everything because I’m not capable," and it’s so total and crushing that I can’t even see which part of that is the actual problem versus the part I could question.
• This person fits the picture in my head of exactly the type who’d do the thing, and I’m treating that as near-certain
• When someone lets me down I instantly decide it’s just who they are
• When someone’s short with me or drops the ball I go straight to "that’s just who they are
• I catch myself deciding who a person is from the group they belong to before they’ve done anything, and when they don’t fit I wave it off as them being the exception rather than questioning my read.

Practices that may help

1. Learn the three attribution dimensions
   Diagnose every failure explanation as internal/external, stable/unstable, and global/specific — then ask which dimension you can shift.
   Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
2. Interrogate whether similarity is doing the work
   When assessing probability or quality, ask whether you’re really judging similarity to a prototype.
   Attribute Substitution: When Your Brain Answers a Different Question
3. Catch the attribution error
   Notice when you’re explaining someone’s behavior by their character instead of their situation.
   Generous Interpretation
4. Default to attributional charity for others’ behavior
   When someone acts in a way that seems wrong, first generate a situational explanation before a dispositional one.
   Naive Realism: Why Everyone Thinks They See Things as They Are
5. Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
   Attributional retraining is a structured intervention that teaches people to explain failures and setbacks in more controllable, unstable, and specific ways — shifting from "I’m bad at this" to "I need a different strategy." Research, particularly from Carol Dweck and Bernard Weiner, shows this shift reliably improves persistence and academic achievement, with effects that are clinically meaningful in some populations.
6. The Similarity-Attraction Effect (Donn Byrne)
   Donn Byrne's research established that perceived attitude similarity reliably increases interpersonal attraction across a wide range of conditions — a finding replicated hundreds of times. The effect is mediated by several mechanisms: similar others validate our worldview, signal lower social risk, and make interaction feel easier. The implication for friendship is double-edged: similarity is a genuine bond-builder, but it also drives homophily, which narrows social worlds.
7. Audit person-judgments for prototype substitution
   Check whether a judgment about a person is based on their actual behavior or on resemblance to a type.
   The Representativeness Heuristic — Judging by Resemblance
8. Apply attributional retraining to success as well as failure
   Attribute genuine successes to stable, internal, and global factors — not to luck or circumstance alone.
   Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
9. The Representativeness Heuristic — Judging by Resemblance
   The representativeness heuristic is the mental shortcut of judging probability by how closely something resembles a prototype or stereotype. It is fast and often useful, but it reliably misfires when it overrides base rates, produces the conjunction fallacy, or treats random-looking sequences as unlikely.
10. Look up base rates before forming a resemblance judgment
    Before deciding "this looks like X," ask how common X actually is in the relevant population.
    The Representativeness Heuristic — Judging by Resemblance

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