Coaching practices for What to Do When Procrastinating

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• When I’m dodging the big thing I don’t actually rest
• The thing I put off is still sitting there and instead of just naming that, I spiral into "I’m so lazy, I always do this"
• There’s one big thing glaring at me from the top of my list that I just won’t touch
• I wasted the whole day avoiding it and now I’m drowning in guilt about it, and the worst part is the guilt makes me want to avoid it even harder
• Putting it off another day just feels like relief in the moment, and the version of me who has to deal with it later stays so blurry and far-off that I never actually weigh what I’m handing him.

Practices that may help

1. Stock your "avoidance zone" with genuinely useful work
   Fill the tasks you do while procrastinating with things that actually matter.
   Structured Procrastination, Made Practical
2. Acknowledge the procrastination without self-condemnation
   Name what happened clearly and without exaggeration — accuracy, not absolution.
   Self-Forgiveness and Procrastination
3. Place an important-seeming but deferrable task at the top of your list
   Put a compelling but non-urgent task first, so everything below it gets done in avoidance of it.
   Structured Procrastination, Made Practical
4. Self-forgive immediately after procrastinating
   Guilt after procrastinating predicts more procrastination — forgive quickly and redirect.
   Procrastination as Emotion Regulation
5. Make the long-term consequences of procrastinating feel immediate
   Present-focus is the cognitive driver of task deferral — make future costs feel present.
   Task Aversion and Procrastination
6. Use structured self-compassion after delay — not self-criticism
   Responding to procrastination with self-criticism predicts more procrastination, not less.
   The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical
7. Track procrastination episodes to identify patterns, not to judge yourself
   Data on your own procrastination is more useful than guilt about it.
   Self-Forgiveness and Procrastination
8. Use precommitment devices to compensate for low motivation
   Lock in behavior in advance so you are not relying on in-the-moment motivation to start.
   The Procrastination Equation, Made Practical
9. Review the list to prevent permanent deferral
   Structured procrastination works only if the top item eventually gets done — build in periodic forcing.
   Structured Procrastination, Made Practical
10. Understand your procrastination as a protection strategy, not laziness
    Identify what threat your procrastination is protecting you from — usually failure or judgment.
    The Now Habit, Made Practical

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