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  • I jump on problems fast and feel decisive, then realize I’d charged in solving the wrong thing entirely
  • The moment a problem shows up I lock onto the first fix that comes to mind and start running with it
  • The second something goes wrong I leap straight to fixes
  • I rush to fix it the moment a problem surfaces, and the solutions we land on never seem to hold
  • The moment someone brings me a problem I’m already firing off solutions before they’ve finished explaining it

Practices that may help

  1. Train situational perception
    Before deciding, spend sixty seconds naming what kind of situation this actually is.
    Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom
  2. Adopt a "not-knowing" stance before problem-solving
    Delay solution-generation by first articulating what you genuinely do not know about a problem.
    Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical
  3. Distinguish diagnostic trees (why?) from solution trees (how?)
    Use a "why?" tree to find root causes and a "how?" tree to generate solutions — mixing them produces confusing structures.
    Issue Tree Analysis
  4. Move to problem-solving only after understanding is mutual
    Problem-solving before mutual understanding produces solutions neither party owns.
    Looping for Understanding (Difficult Conversations)
  5. Listen before diagnosing
    Resist the urge to solve until you can restate the problem in terms the other person agrees with.
    The Trust Equation, Made Practical
  6. Mirror the emotional register before problem-solving
    Name or match the other person’s emotional state before offering analysis or advice.
    Mirroring and Matching, Made Practical
  7. Climb the why–why ladder
    Ask "why is this a problem?" repeatedly to reveal the higher-level goal your current framing may be missing.
    Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
  8. Notice which system is driving
    Before deciding, ask whether this is a System 1 (snap) or System 2 (effortful) problem.
    Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable
  9. Map Reality with curious, non-judgmental inquiry
    Build an accurate, specific picture of the current situation before jumping to solutions.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
  10. Generation: attempt before you are taught
    Try to solve or answer first, even if you get it wrong, before seeing the solution.
    Make It Stick: The Science of Learning

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