Coaching practices for I Keep Calling Things by This Concept That Turn Out Not to Be it at All I've Stretched it Way Too Wide Because I Only Ever Saw What it is Never the Close Cases Where it Actually Stops Applying

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I keep calling things by this concept that turn out not to be it at all
• I’m reaching for a framework that worked great somewhere else and dropping it onto this situation, and a part of me isn’t sure the two cases are actually the same kind of thing underneath
• I’ve locked onto one way of seeing this problem
• I keep saying things like "X always leads to Y" or "people like that never change," and I pile up examples that fit
• I learn something from one example and feel sure I understand it, then the moment it shows up looking even slightly different I don’t recognize it

Practices that may help

1. Use non-examples to sharpen concept boundaries
   Study what a concept is not — cases that almost fit — to prevent over-generalization.
   Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick
2. Question whether the category you’re reasoning from actually fits
   Before applying a model or framework, verify that the category it was built on genuinely matches your situation.
   The Ludic Fallacy: When You Mistake Real Life for a Game
3. Use multiple analogies for the same problem
   Draw on at least two different analogies for a new problem and see where they agree and diverge.
   Analogical Reasoning
4. Search deliberately for the black swan
   Look for the single example that would overturn your generalization.
   Falsification Thinking
5. Use multiple varied examples to map the concept’s true shape
   Three different examples reveal what one example hides — the edges of the concept.
   Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick
6. Constraint vacation: remove a constraint to see what you’ve been avoiding
   Temporarily lift a constraint you’ve accepted as fixed and ask what you would do if it genuinely did not apply.
   Deliberate Constraints, Made Practical
7. Hold multiple maps simultaneously
   For complex situations, develop two or three competing models and check which fits better.
   The Map Is Not the Territory
8. Look for what your map omits
   Every model leaves something out — deliberately search for your blind spots.
   The Map Is Not the Territory
9. Examine the evidence for and against
   Systematically list what supports your interpretation and what doesn’t — like a fair-minded lawyer, not a prosecutor.
   Check the Facts, Made Practical
10. Guard against goal-induced tunnel vision on the stretch target
    Intense focus on a specific stretch metric can produce unethical shortcuts or costly neglect of adjacent areas.
    Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire

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