Coaching practices for My Practice is Either So Easy I'm Basically Asleep or So Brutal I Just Fail and Want to Quit I Can Never Seem to Land it in That Middle Zone Where It's Hard Enough to Stretch Me but I'm Still Mostly Getting it
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- My practice is either so easy I’m basically asleep or so brutal I just fail and want to quit
- In the moment my practice goes smooth and I walk away feeling like I’ve got it nailed
- My practice has gotten comfortable
- I practice a lot but it’s mostly stuff I can already nail, and I can’t honestly tell where the real edge is anymore
- I’ve been putting in the hours for ages and I’ve completely plateaued
Practices that may help
- Calibrate practice difficulty so it is challenging but not overwhelming
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
Contextual Interference: Why Varied Practice Beats Blocked Repetition - Stop judging learning by today’s performance
How well you do during practice is a bad predictor of how much you will keep.
Desirable Difficulties: When Harder Means Better Learning - Train at the edge of your ability
Work on tasks just beyond what you can reliably do, not what you already do well.
Deliberate Practice, Not Just Practice - Locate your growth edge before each session
Identify the exact sub-skill where you currently fail 20–40% of the time.
Growth-Edge Training: Practicing at the Edge of Your Ability - Practice deliberately, not just repeatedly
Target weaknesses with full focus and feedback, not comfortable repetition.
Grit: Passion and Perseverance, Honestly Assessed - Find the challenge that produces full engagement
Match the difficulty of what you are practicing to what fully engages your attention without overwhelming it.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Design "Goldilocks" tasks
Pitch work at not-too-easy, not-too-hard to sustain engagement toward mastery.
Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose - Schedule deliberate edge practice
Pick one uncomfortable action per week at the boundary of your current competence.
The Comfort Zone Model: How to Grow Without Burning Out - Add the difficulty of varied practice
Change the context, examples, and conditions instead of drilling identical reps.
Desirable Difficulties: When Harder Means Better Learning - Drill: attack your weakest sub-skill
Isolate the rate-limiting component and drill it directly.
Ultralearning: Aggressive, Self-Directed Learning
Related concerns
- How Hard Should Practice Be
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
Calibrate practice difficulty so it is challenging but not overwhelming
- Optimal Practice Difficulty
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
- Using Difficulty As Practice
A difficulty is only desirable if you have the prior knowledge to overcome it.
Tune the difficulty to your current level
- When The Inner Game Gallwey Enjoyment Engagement
Match the difficulty of what you are practicing to what fully engages your attention without overwhelming it.
Find the challenge that produces full engagement
- Constraint Based Practice
Remove degrees of freedom so attention concentrates on a single weak sub-skill.
Use constraint-based drills to isolate one component
- Deliberate Practice Comfort Zone
Pick one uncomfortable action per week at the boundary of your current competence.
Schedule deliberate edge practice
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